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Girls what do you feel about shy guys?
« on: October 19, 2015, 03:30:22 pm »
To all the ladies what are your thoughts on shy guys?

Back when I was in poly there was this guy who was a friend but we weren't really close. We normally hang out together with other friends but never alone.

After graduating for a few years one of my friends accidentally let it slip that he was actually interested in me but was too shy to do anything about it. A couple of friend encouraged him but he failed to find any courage to do anything about it.
 
Personally I feel that it was a waste. He was a pretty nice guy with a sense of humor. I would definitely get to know him more and gave us a chance if he were to approach me.

Anyone else got a similar story? or any thoughts?
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Re: Girls what do you feel about shy guys?
« Reply #1 on: October 19, 2015, 03:57:00 pm »
To all the ladies what are your thoughts on shy guys?

Back when I was in poly there was this guy who was a friend but we weren't really close. We normally hang out together with other friends but never alone.

After graduating for a few years one of my friends accidentally let it slip that he was actually interested in me but was too shy to do anything about it. A couple of friend encouraged him but he failed to find any courage to do anything about it.
 
Personally I feel that it was a waste. He was a pretty nice guy with a sense of humor. I would definitely get to know him more and gave us a chance if he were to approach me.

Anyone else got a similar story? or any thoughts?

what a self entitled girl....pathetic...please.......dont try to reminisce some poot that will make u feel better...truth is that, you are girl that think that u deserve men attention but truth is, you are nothing but a spoil brat....

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« Reply #2 on: October 19, 2015, 04:01:37 pm »
what a self entitled girl....pathetic...please.......dont try to reminisce some poot that will make u feel better...truth is that, you are girl that think that u deserve men attention but truth is, you are nothing but a spoil brat....

no idea how you came to that conclusion.

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« Reply #3 on: October 19, 2015, 04:07:54 pm »
what a self entitled girl....pathetic...please.......dont try to reminisce some poot that will make u feel better...truth is that, you are girl that think that u deserve men attention but truth is, you are nothing but a spoil brat....

Please let me know which part of my post make you feel this way?


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« Reply #4 on: October 19, 2015, 04:25:06 pm »
To all the ladies what are your thoughts on shy guys?

Back when I was in poly there was this guy who was a friend but we weren't really close. We normally hang out together with other friends but never alone.

After graduating for a few years one of my friends accidentally let it slip that he was actually interested in me but was too shy to do anything about it. A couple of friend encouraged him but he failed to find any courage to do anything about it.
 
Personally I feel that it was a waste. He was a pretty nice guy with a sense of humor. I would definitely get to know him more and gave us a chance if he were to approach me.

Anyone else got a similar story? or any thoughts?

Hi JFlower,

I probably speak in partial behalf's on most shy guys, as in the mind of a shy guy, he is worried because:
1)what if the girl don't like me?
2)what if i reveal my love and she run away?
3)Over analysis & too embarrassed to cross that line, fearing that it will jeopardise the friendship and no more friends = cannot see you ever again.

Truth is I am only shy to the only girl I like (I think for most guys too) to other normal girls we treat them no different as our band of brothers.
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« Reply #5 on: October 19, 2015, 04:30:25 pm »
Hi JFlower,

I probably speak in partial behalf's on most shy guys, as in the mind of a shy guy, he is worried because:
1)what if the girl don't like me?
2)what if i reveal my love and she run away?
3)Over analysis & too embarrassed to cross that line, fearing that it will jeopardise the friendship and no more friends = cannot see you ever again.

Truth is I am only shy to the only girl I like (I think for most guys too) to other normal girls we treat them no different as our band of brothers.

Then you have to let her see that you are only shy to her and not everyone one else. I have friends who are naturally shy to everyone so even if he likes a girl no one will know one. There is a need to let girls feel that you are treating her specially different so that she gets the hint or something. Even then, that also isn't a guaranteed chance of getting together with the girl.

I am a very chatty and noisy person in real life but was always shy towards 1 girl when I was young. As expected, didn't manage to win her heart of course  :(
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« Reply #6 on: October 19, 2015, 04:50:05 pm »
Hi JFlower,

I probably speak in partial behalf's on most shy guys, as in the mind of a shy guy, he is worried because:
1)what if the girl don't like me?
2)what if i reveal my love and she run away?
3)Over analysis & too embarrassed to cross that line, fearing that it will jeopardise the friendship and no more friends = cannot see you ever again.

Truth is I am only shy to the only girl I like (I think for most guys too) to other normal girls we treat them no different as our band of brothers.

Then you have to let her see that you are only shy to her and not everyone one else. I have friends who are naturally shy to everyone so even if he likes a girl no one will know one. There is a need to let girls feel that you are treating her specially different so that she gets the hint or something. Even then, that also isn't a guaranteed chance of getting together with the girl.

I am a very chatty and noisy person in real life but was always shy towards 1 girl when I was young. As expected, didn't manage to win her heart of course  :(

To be honest some girls also feel the same. thats why we drop hints to test if the guy feel the same way as us.

maybe like what ~老婆餅~ mention, try to drop some hints and see how she reply. she might be interested in you and is waiting for your move.  :)
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« Reply #7 on: October 19, 2015, 04:55:11 pm »
Shy guys are half the male population in Sg.. :D
Much likely to end up as a normal person working the rest of his life.
If you agree with the topic on marrying the boring guy, this is the kind to go for!
If you are a risk taker then... :p

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« Reply #8 on: October 19, 2015, 05:08:18 pm »
To be honest some girls also feel the same. thats why we drop hints to test if the guy feel the same way as us.

maybe like what ~老婆餅~ mention, try to drop some hints and see how she reply. she might be interested in you and is waiting for your move.  :)

haha.. speaking about hints..

Some guys are like woodblocks. I am one of them. Subtle hints don't work. Obvious hints don't work either. some girls have say out the obvious they like me, but of cos that's after I get shocked n surprised, and then later go back to my Batman cave & hide, haha..
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« Reply #9 on: October 19, 2015, 05:09:21 pm »
haha.. speaking about hints..

Some guys are like woodblocks. I am one of them. Subtle hints don't work. Obvious hints don't work either. Most girls have say out the obvious, but of cos that's after I go back to my Batman cave hide, haha..

I saw Batam cave..  ;D ;D

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« Reply #10 on: October 19, 2015, 05:10:18 pm »
I saw Batam cave..  ;D ;D

Batman Cave la... Best in Singapore, some say Batam too... lol
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« Reply #11 on: October 19, 2015, 05:14:07 pm »
haha.. speaking about hints..

Some guys are like woodblocks. I am one of them. Subtle hints don't work. Obvious hints don't work either. some girls have say out the obvious they like me, but of cos that's after I get shocked n surprised, and then later go back to my Batman cave & hide, haha..

So are you attached/married now? Some hints sibeh obvious one leh. Like always eat with girls but you are the only guy she eat together etc.  ;D
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« Reply #12 on: October 19, 2015, 05:25:39 pm »
So are you attached/married now? Some hints sibeh obvious one leh. Like always eat with girls but you are the only guy she eat together etc.  ;D

Neither, planning to turn gay to move into another market haha (jk) but hor... some guys really have no radar on them. A girl can come up to me in a club asking" Hey what are you doing here?"
My epic reply. "O Nothing." and she walks away.
after i think back, then I realise what happened lol..
wood block right?
sometimes guys go club also going to enjoy music and have fun, it's not always about girls lol...
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« Reply #13 on: October 19, 2015, 05:29:42 pm »
Neither, planning to turn gay to move into another market haha (jk) but hor... some guys really have no radar on them. A girl can come up to me in a club asking" Hey what are you doing here?"
My epic reply. "O Nothing." and she walks away.
after i think back, then I realise what happened lol..
wood block right?
sometimes guys go club also going to enjoy music and have fun, it's not always about girls lol...

I wouldn't say wasted chance, since I am a boring non clubbing person and I would prefer if my other half doesn't club too. Guess I'm old fashioned
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« Reply #14 on: October 19, 2015, 06:00:25 pm »
Shy guys are half the male population in Sg.. :D
Much likely to end up as a normal person working the rest of his life.
If you agree with the topic on marrying the boring guy, this is the kind to go for!
If you are a risk taker then... :p

i think shy and boring different eh?

as in like what was mention above some guys can be funny/daring/cool etc. but when face to face with the girl he have a crush on, they totally stop functioning. haha

super wasted as they might be the right one for each other.


and dont get me wrong guys.
Im not saying that girls cannot make the first move but for some reason alot of my guy friends tell me that a female making the first move is a super no no. might leave a wrong impression on the guy?
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