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Female friends, early 30s and still very single.
« on: September 26, 2015, 08:59:16 am »
I have a group of close female friends who actively go on online dates to know more people. But they say Singaporean guys really cannot make it. Either not handsome enough, not rich enough or not gentlemen enough.

Are they too picky or Singaporean guys really cannot make it?

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Re: Female friends, early 30s and still very single.
« Reply #1 on: September 30, 2015, 08:56:45 am »
Yes, I have many female friends that are over 30s and not married too, while some looks ok, mostly do not take good care of their body and looks. I think guys are more attracted to the beauty and appearance, so might not be one way looking at things. :(
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Re: Female friends, early 30s and still very single.
« Reply #2 on: October 08, 2015, 06:10:08 pm »
I have a group of close female friends who actively go on online dates to know more people. But they say Singaporean guys really cannot make it. Either not handsome enough, not rich enough or not gentlemen enough.

Are they too picky or Singaporean guys really cannot make it?

your nick sounds like a guy... dun be sad. there is bound to be a girl out there for you... maybe.

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Re: Female friends, early 30s and still very single.
« Reply #3 on: October 08, 2015, 06:19:28 pm »
Are they too picky or Singaporean guys really cannot make it?

not to generalise, but many singaporean guys really cannot make it.
expect us females to cook. I mean, this is what century? if i stay home as homemaker, then yes maybe i really ought to cook

but i am working like u guys too, bringing back the bacon.

and there are guys out there who still don't like that their wives work.... simi logic is this?
year 2015 leh, not 1915 leh.

carry a bit of branded handbag, then kanna labelled gold-digger.
i dont understand why some guys can splurge on car, car accessories, watches, tv, computers, mobile phones, but we buy a little nicer handbags, we are labelled?

some guys told me they dont want to approach any lady that carries a bag because they assume they (guys) are not fit for them liao.
waaaay to score.

pls dont judge us girls just because of a handbag we wear, or a lipstick color we have.
or just because our skirts a bit shorter (in case the guys dont realise it, we short girls have to wear short skirts to make our legs longer and appear taller!!!)

we dont put make up, we are labelled lazy and worse, UGLY.
no guys like us
put make up too much, we are labelled THICK LAYER OF CAKE and laughed at.
please tell us what to do.
u think we were born knowing how to put on the optimal level of make up? we don't learn this in sec school. we have to pay for workshops, or trial and errors.

and do u guys know how much cosmetic costs? 1 bloody lipstick costs $100.
thats $100 u guys can treat us to 4 meals. (casual dining)
and u guys complain that u guys have to pay for dinner everytime.
I havent even calculate the foundation, eye liner eye shadow etc etc

If i dont spend the money and just go plain, because i want to save more money, then I would be laughed as an ugly woman.

this is the truth abt singaporean men. many good men are taken up by the lucky girls, leaving all these jokers who think that we singaporean women are too good for them, so they bring some ladies from overseas.



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Re: Female friends, early 30s and still very single.
« Reply #4 on: October 10, 2015, 09:59:13 am »
well, they say the good guys are either married or gay...   :'(
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« Reply #5 on: October 10, 2015, 07:25:32 pm »
people spent too much time trying to find the perfect one, but forgot to try to be the perfect one.
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Re: Female friends, early 30s and still very single.
« Reply #6 on: October 14, 2015, 12:08:35 am »
I have a group of close female friends who actively go on online dates to know more people. But they say Singaporean guys really cannot make it. Either not handsome enough, not rich enough or not gentlemen enough.

Are they too picky or Singaporean guys really cannot make it?

Yeah true. The SG guys I went out with are so niao

I went out with Malaysian working in SG...they got car got chivalry. Drives me to nice places to have a meal. Both dates I went on treat me n never expect me to pay for my meals when I insist....

Why SG guys like that wan....

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Re: Female friends, early 30s and still very single.
« Reply #7 on: October 14, 2015, 12:09:11 am »
people spent too much time trying to find the perfect one, but forgot to try to be the perfect one.

I thought we r all imperfect till we find our match?

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Re: Female friends, early 30s and still very single.
« Reply #8 on: October 14, 2015, 12:10:07 am »
well, they say the good guys are either married or gay...   :'(

Handsome ones r usually gays lah


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Re: Female friends, early 30s and still very single.
« Reply #9 on: October 14, 2015, 11:01:10 am »
your nick sounds like a guy... dun be sad. there is bound to be a girl out there for you... maybe.
Actually I am married liao. I am just worried for my female friends.

Ask them to take initiative to chase they don't want, scared malu. Say let nature takes its course. In their 30s liao. I think a few more years those single ones can just buy HDB and stay together take care of one another bah.

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Re: Female friends, early 30s and still very single.
« Reply #10 on: October 14, 2015, 11:32:16 am »
Actually I am married liao. I am just worried for my female friends.

Ask them to take initiative to chase they don't want, scared malu. Say let nature takes its course. In their 30s liao. I think a few more years those single ones can just buy HDB and stay together take care of one another bah.

Take initiative? Guys should be doing the chasing. I have never chased any guys and I will dump those who never make it in my list. I do not want to suffer together with them for the rest of my life. Choose correctly and I am set for a better future.

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Re: Female friends, early 30s and still very single.
« Reply #11 on: October 14, 2015, 01:36:16 pm »
Take initiative? Guys should be doing the chasing. I have never chased any guys and I will dump those who never make it in my list. I do not want to suffer together with them for the rest of my life. Choose correctly and I am set for a better future.
Suuurreeee you can choose correctly and you are set for a better future, but will the "perfect" guy choose you, what can you offer. Most likely the next choosing that you will be doing will be at SPCA for a cat/dog for companionship.

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« Reply #12 on: October 14, 2015, 01:50:32 pm »
hi chatterbox, i pity your children.

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expect us females to cook. I mean, this is what century? if i stay home as homemaker, then yes maybe i really ought to cook
cooking is a lifeskill and everyone should know it. next time your kid and you gonna eat MacDonald everyday?

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or just because our skirts a bit shorter (in case the guys dont realise it, we short girls have to wear short skirts to make our legs longer and appear taller!!!)

den u ZG dun complain.

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u think we were born knowing how to put on the optimal level of make up? we don't learn this in sec school. we have to pay for workshops, or trial and errors.
there is something called a mirror. look at it and you will know if you are putting too much or too little.


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and do u guys know how much cosmetic costs? 1 bloody lipstick costs $100.

if your lipstick costs 100$, you are going to the wrong shops. unless ofc, you want to buy those 100$ lipsticks then you should not complain about them being expensive.


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If i dont spend the money and just go plain, because i want to save more money, then I would be laughed as an ugly woman.
tbh, most guys finds plain girls pretty. maybe you are ugly inside and outside thats why you need 100$ and up makeup to mask your ugliness.

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this is the truth abt singaporean men. many good men are taken up by the lucky girls, leaving all these jokers who think that we singaporean women are too good for them, so they bring some ladies from overseas.
it is true, good men are taken by the lucky girls who know how to spot them. but the leftovers are the jokers, who think they are too good for singaporean men and are jealous that overseas ladies have so much more to offer.

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I went out with Malaysian working in SG...they got car got chivalry. Drives me to nice places to have a meal. Both dates I went on treat me n never expect me to pay for my meals when I insist....

Why SG guys like that wan....
hannor. in m'sia a car so cheap, meals so cheap also. i date u go m'sia also can drive you around and treat you eat until you become fat.
yet here, you girls expect men to either buy a car b4 they will go on dates with them, or drive their parents car around for you.

how can a single men, 24-30, afford to buy a car that easily costs 70k++?
how many girls in singapore, bought a car for themselves within the first few years of working? but because MEN have to drive GIRLS around when they date, they have to have a car.

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Take initiative? Guys should be doing the chasing. I have never chased any guys and I will dump those who never make it in my list. I do not want to suffer together with them for the rest of my life. Choose correctly and I am set for a better future.

fact is, if you all r still single by 25, you all have been choosing wrongly.
plz wake up.


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Re: Female friends, early 30s and still very single.
« Reply #13 on: October 14, 2015, 01:58:42 pm »
hi chatterbox, i pity your children.
cooking is a lifeskill and everyone should know it. next time your kid and you gonna eat MacDonald everyday?

den u ZG dun complain.
there is something called a mirror. look at it and you will know if you are putting too much or too little.


if your lipstick costs 100$, you are going to the wrong shops. unless ofc, you want to buy those 100$ lipsticks then you should not complain about them being expensive.

tbh, most guys finds plain girls pretty. maybe you are ugly inside and outside thats why you need 100$ and up makeup to mask your ugliness.
it is true, good men are taken by the lucky girls who know how to spot them. but the leftovers are the jokers, who think they are too good for singaporean men and are jealous that overseas ladies have so much more to offer.
hannor. in m'sia a car so cheap, meals so cheap also. i date u go m'sia also can drive you around and treat you eat until you become fat.
yet here, you girls expect men to either buy a car b4 they will go on dates with them, or drive their parents car around for you.

how can a single men, 24-30, afford to buy a car that easily costs 70k++?
how many girls in singapore, bought a car for themselves within the first few years of working? but because MEN have to drive GIRLS around when they date, they have to have a car.

fact is, if you all r still single by 25, you all have been choosing wrongly.
plz wake up.


best regards,
next to 10 stupid people.

Hey get lost. I report u for abuse. Don't come here and tell us what to do!

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« Reply #14 on: October 14, 2015, 02:40:33 pm »
Hey get lost. I report u for abuse. Don't come here and tell us what to do!
People come forum to discuss u ask him to go away because u disagree  :o