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Re: Female friends, early 30s and still very single.
« Reply #30 on: October 15, 2015, 12:03:31 am »
not to generalise, but many singaporean guys really cannot make it.
expect us females to cook. I mean, this is what century? if i stay home as homemaker, then yes maybe i really ought to cook

but i am working like u guys too, bringing back the bacon.

and there are guys out there who still don't like that their wives work.... simi logic is this?
year 2015 leh, not 1915 leh.

carry a bit of branded handbag, then kanna labelled gold-digger.
i dont understand why some guys can splurge on car, car accessories, watches, tv, computers, mobile phones, but we buy a little nicer handbags, we are labelled?

some guys told me they dont want to approach any lady that carries a bag because they assume they (guys) are not fit for them liao.
waaaay to score.

pls dont judge us girls just because of a handbag we wear, or a lipstick color we have.
or just because our skirts a bit shorter (in case the guys dont realise it, we short girls have to wear short skirts to make our legs longer and appear taller!!!)

we dont put make up, we are labelled lazy and worse, UGLY.
no guys like us
put make up too much, we are labelled THICK LAYER OF CAKE and laughed at.
please tell us what to do.
u think we were born knowing how to put on the optimal level of make up? we don't learn this in sec school. we have to pay for workshops, or trial and errors.

and do u guys know how much cosmetic costs? 1 bloody lipstick costs $100.
thats $100 u guys can treat us to 4 meals. (casual dining)
and u guys complain that u guys have to pay for dinner everytime.
I havent even calculate the foundation, eye liner eye shadow etc etc

If i dont spend the money and just go plain, because i want to save more money, then I would be laughed as an ugly woman.

this is the truth abt singaporean men. many good men are taken up by the lucky girls, leaving all these jokers who think that we singaporean women are too good for them, so they bring some ladies from overseas.

Hey Chatterbox,

fair comments you made here. What kind of bags you like? judging from the Chanel, I guess you must be a Chanel fan...what bag a girl carry may shed some hint on the girl's character...2.55 for the more feminine/matured ladies while the Boy Chanel show a younger more energetic girl maybe?

PM me next time should you have any problem getting a guy to pay for a meal..lunch on me with no strings attached.

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Re: Female friends, early 30s and still very single.
« Reply #31 on: October 15, 2015, 08:13:58 pm »
And now I know why Singapore has the one of the world's lowest birth rates.

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Re: Female friends, early 30s and still very single.
« Reply #32 on: October 15, 2015, 10:01:27 pm »
Chill gals and guys. Life is short.

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Re: Female friends, early 30s and still very single.
« Reply #33 on: October 16, 2015, 02:34:40 am »
~I come here in peace~ *holds up white flag*


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Re: Female friends, early 30s and still very single.
« Reply #34 on: October 16, 2015, 04:11:36 am »
I own a car

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Re: Female friends, early 30s and still very single.
« Reply #35 on: October 16, 2015, 04:16:24 am »
Female here, 24.
I dont do make up because I dislike the things to be on my face feels really weird, dont really do shopping, usually go out with tshirt n shorts but I like to explore cafe, and loves outdoor activity. Most of ny hobby is mostly guy's hobby. I work super flexible hours and I own a car. Why am I still single?

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Re: Female friends, early 30s and still very single.
« Reply #36 on: October 16, 2015, 04:59:03 am »
I'm a guy who has many guy friends from wealthy backgrounds, most of them doctors. All i can say is for you to lower your standards and expectations.

Discussing about girls/marriage is something we usually do in our free time, and their preference is for homely down-to-earth, non-materialistic or self-entitled girls. Even those guy-friends of mine who 'play' around also prefer to eventually settle with someone who can at least manage a household; inclusive of doing housework/basic chores.

It is true that looks is what make us want to approach the girl, but the ultimate make-or-break factor is her character as a whole. We too can forgo good looks if we are able to connect with the person. My 2 cents.


Ehh, but how come im single..

I don't do make up, I rather have electronic or car/bike accessory or even dog accessory for my pups than having branded bag which serve me no purpose at all !!
Shopping is such a chore, but visiting 'out of town' quiet cafe is more fun.

I personally feels that cooking is much more fun if both couple do it together exploring the recipe.
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Re: Female friends, early 30s and still very single.
« Reply #37 on: October 16, 2015, 03:24:35 pm »
And now I know why Singapore has the one of the world's lowest birth rates.

Lemme know if a donor is needed...can always do my best for my country

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Re: Female friends, early 30s and still very single.
« Reply #38 on: October 16, 2015, 04:11:13 pm »
Lemme know if a donor is needed...can always do my best for my country

So touched by your heroic act~  ;D
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Re: Female friends, early 30s and still very single.
« Reply #39 on: October 17, 2015, 01:57:35 am »
not to generalise, but many singaporean guys really cannot make it.
expect us females to cook. I mean, this is what century? if i stay home as homemaker, then yes maybe i really ought to cook

but i am working like u guys too, bringing back the bacon.

and there are guys out there who still don't like that their wives work.... simi logic is this?
year 2015 leh, not 1915 leh.

carry a bit of branded handbag, then kanna labelled gold-digger.
i dont understand why some guys can splurge on car, car accessories, watches, tv, computers, mobile phones, but we buy a little nicer handbags, we are labelled?

some guys told me they dont want to approach any lady that carries a bag because they assume they (guys) are not fit for them liao.
waaaay to score.

pls dont judge us girls just because of a handbag we wear, or a lipstick color we have.
or just because our skirts a bit shorter (in case the guys dont realise it, we short girls have to wear short skirts to make our legs longer and appear taller!!!)

we dont put make up, we are labelled lazy and worse, UGLY.
no guys like us
put make up too much, we are labelled THICK LAYER OF CAKE and laughed at.
please tell us what to do.
u think we were born knowing how to put on the optimal level of make up? we don't learn this in sec school. we have to pay for workshops, or trial and errors.

and do u guys know how much cosmetic costs? 1 bloody lipstick costs $100.
thats $100 u guys can treat us to 4 meals. (casual dining)
and u guys complain that u guys have to pay for dinner everytime.
I havent even calculate the foundation, eye liner eye shadow etc etc

If i dont spend the money and just go plain, because i want to save more money, then I would be laughed as an ugly woman.

this is the truth abt singaporean men. many good men are taken up by the lucky girls, leaving all these jokers who think that we singaporean women are too good for them, so they bring some ladies from overseas.

A MAN and his son were once going with their Donkey to market. As they were walking along by its side a countryman passed them and said: “You fools, what is a Donkey for but to ride upon?”     1
  So the Man put the Boy on the Donkey and they went on their way. But soon they passed a group of men, one of whom said: “See that lazy youngster, he lets his father walk while he rides.”     2
  So the Man ordered his Boy to get off, and got on himself. But they hadn’t gone far when they passed two women, one of whom said to the other: “Shame on that lazy lout to let his poor little son trudge along.”     3
  Well, the Man didn’t know what to do, but at last he took his Boy up before him on the Donkey. By this time they had come to the town, and the passers-by began to jeer and point at them. The Man stopped and asked what they were scoffing at. The men said: “Aren’t you ashamed of yourself for overloading that poor Donkey of yours—you and your hulking son?”     4
  The Man and Boy got off and tried to think what to do. They thought and they thought, till at last they cut down a pole, tied the Donkey’s feet to it, and raised the pole and the Donkey to their shoulders. They went along amid the laughter of all who met them till they came to Market Bridge, when the Donkey, getting one of his feet loose, kicked out and caused the Boy to drop his end of the pole. In the struggle the Donkey fell over the bridge, and his fore-feet being tied together he was drowned.     5
  “That will teach you,” said an old man who had followed them:
           “PLEASE ALL, AND YOU WILL PLEASE NONE.”

Don't be too concerned about what others think of you imho . Some people are just going to judge you anyway.
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Re: Female friends, early 30s and still very single.
« Reply #40 on: October 17, 2015, 04:18:08 am »
I have a group of close female friends who actively go on online dates to know more people. But they say Singaporean guys really cannot make it. Either not handsome enough, not rich enough or not gentlemen enough.

Are they too picky or Singaporean guys really cannot make it?

Truth be told,  the good ones are all either married or attached.  You know,  quality control from fellow sisters.  Can consider snatching one away from another gal.  Lol. 

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Re: Female friends, early 30s and still very single.
« Reply #41 on: October 17, 2015, 04:23:21 am »
Take initiative? Guys should be doing the chasing. I have never chased any guys and I will dump those who never make it in my list. I do not want to suffer together with them for the rest of my life. Choose correctly and I am set for a better future.

Yes,  agreed fully. 

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Re: Female friends, early 30s and still very single.
« Reply #42 on: October 17, 2015, 04:25:35 am »
Female here, 24.
I dont do make up because I dislike the things to be on my face feels really weird, dont really do shopping, usually go out with tshirt n shorts but I like to explore cafe, and loves outdoor activity. Most of ny hobby is mostly guy's hobby. I work super flexible hours and I own a car. Why am I still single?

Looking in wrong places?  Expectations very high? 

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Re: Female friends, early 30s and still very single.
« Reply #43 on: October 17, 2015, 10:41:14 am »
Female here, 24.
I dont do make up because I dislike the things to be on my face feels really weird, dont really do shopping, usually go out with tshirt n shorts but I like to explore cafe, and loves outdoor activity. Most of ny hobby is mostly guy's hobby. I work super flexible hours and I own a car. Why am I still single?

What kind of guy hobbies you have? can share? I have a lot of hobbies too....as to your problem, just go join EDMW and you will get to choose from a super wide spectrum of guys, rich, poor, handsome, ugly...anything you like, they are all there waiting for girls to chat wif...

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Re: Female friends, early 30s and still very single.
« Reply #44 on: October 17, 2015, 11:04:20 am »
I'm a guy who has many guy friends from wealthy backgrounds, most of them doctors. All i can say is for you to lower your standards and expectations.

Discussing about girls/marriage is something we usually do in our free time, and their preference is for homely down-to-earth, non-materialistic or self-entitled girls. Even those guy-friends of mine who 'play' around also prefer to eventually settle with someone who can at least manage a household; inclusive of doing housework/basic chores.


i resonate with this, most of my peers who did well are always on lookout for GND type of women, homely and down to earth. They may date a nice OL for short term flings, but ultimately wont commit. Successful men have certain level of intellectual maturity, gold diggers wont work on them