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Re: Female friends, early 30s and still very single.
« Reply #15 on: October 14, 2015, 03:24:49 pm »
People come forum to discuss u ask him to go away because u disagree  :o

Discuss nicely. U be good to me, I will treat u likewise.

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Re: Female friends, early 30s and still very single.
« Reply #16 on: October 14, 2015, 03:53:02 pm »
Discuss nicely. U be good to me, I will treat u likewise.
That's the spirit!
He does bring up some valid points tho

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Re: Female friends, early 30s and still very single.
« Reply #17 on: October 14, 2015, 06:17:13 pm »
Hey get lost. I report u for abuse. Don't come here and tell us what to do!

that member is probably a guy....
guys can not understand why we feel that way. :(

i feel v sad looking at some of the guys replies.

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Re: Female friends, early 30s and still very single.
« Reply #18 on: October 14, 2015, 06:26:09 pm »
Hey get lost. I report u for abuse. Don't come here and tell us what to do!

He has a point you know  :)
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Re: Female friends, early 30s and still very single.
« Reply #19 on: October 14, 2015, 07:11:49 pm »

how many girls in singapore, bought a car for themselves within the first few years of working? but because MEN have to drive GIRLS around when they date, they have to have a car.
MEN don't always drive GIRLS around FYI... What makes u think that it is definitely this way? If planning is done properly, it is possible for a girl to get herself a car within first few years of working.

fact is, if you all r still single by 25, you all have been choosing wrongly.
plz wake up.
Being single by 25 is a choice of ones own; and it's not about choosing. I'm not saying totally likewise but a matter of fact what u said above is not 100% truthful.

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Re: Female friends, early 30s and still very single.
« Reply #20 on: October 14, 2015, 08:23:05 pm »
I have a group of close female friends who actively go on online dates to know more people. But they say Singaporean guys really cannot make it. Either not handsome enough, not rich enough or not gentlemen enough.

Are they too picky or Singaporean guys really cannot make it?

IMO, not all SG gals are picky neither are SG guys cmi. Guess it all boils down to individual expectations and if both party's expectations match.

Cannot deny, the more material aspects such as the 5cs may be important factors for some SG gals but there are also others out there who do not emphasise on these areas.

Personally for me, i would prefer a partner who loves, respect me and most importantly accept me for my faults and strength to someone who looks good, probably financially well off but selfcentered n cares more abt my looks and figure.

Moneywise, don't need to be rich. Just need to Hold a normal job with stable monthly salary. Ibelieve in gender equality n ladies shd be financially independent, don't depend on our partner.  We can both work together and save for our future. Enough to start family that will be sufficient but most importantly must be responsible.

Just my two cents worth

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Re: Female friends, early 30s and still very single.
« Reply #21 on: October 14, 2015, 08:25:39 pm »
I actually have a crush on my Indian colleague but he's from India.

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Re: Female friends, early 30s and still very single.
« Reply #22 on: October 14, 2015, 08:39:51 pm »
Take initiative? Guys should be doing the chasing. I have never chased any guys and I will dump those who never make it in my list. I do not want to suffer together with them for the rest of my life. Choose correctly and I am set for a better future.

If i like the guy enough i will do the chase.

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Re: Female friends, early 30s and still very single.
« Reply #23 on: October 14, 2015, 08:42:50 pm »
I have a group of close female friends who actively go on online dates to know more people. But they say Singaporean guys really cannot make it. Either not handsome enough, not rich enough or not gentlemen enough.

Are they too picky or Singaporean guys really cannot make it?

same here. whenever gther with my gfs they will tell me their dating stories.
sometimes will envy them. they are single and can do whatever they desire
“Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.” – Maya Angelou

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Re: Female friends, early 30s and still very single.
« Reply #24 on: October 14, 2015, 09:53:32 pm »
that member is probably a guy....
guys can not understand why we feel that way. :(

i feel v sad looking at some of the guys replies.

Yes sis, most likely a guy!  >:( >:( don't feel sad, cheer up  :P please ignore him!


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Re: Female friends, early 30s and still very single.
« Reply #25 on: October 14, 2015, 10:05:05 pm »
same here. whenever gther with my gfs they will tell me their dating stories.
sometimes will envy them. they are single and can do whatever they desire

The grass is always greener on the other side. When i was single, i yearn to be attached, when i am attached, i sometimes wish that i am single.

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Re: Female friends, early 30s and still very single.
« Reply #26 on: October 14, 2015, 10:43:46 pm »
The grass is always greener on the other side. When i was single, i yearn to be attached, when i am attached, i sometimes wish that i am single.
Women! haha..

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Re: Female friends, early 30s and still very single.
« Reply #27 on: October 14, 2015, 10:48:04 pm »
that member is probably a guy....
guys can not understand why we feel that way. :(

i feel v sad looking at some of the guys replies.

I'm a guy who has many guy friends from wealthy backgrounds, most of them doctors. All i can say is for you to lower your standards and expectations.

Discussing about girls/marriage is something we usually do in our free time, and their preference is for homely down-to-earth, non-materialistic or self-entitled girls. Even those guy-friends of mine who 'play' around also prefer to eventually settle with someone who can at least manage a household; inclusive of doing housework/basic chores.

It is true that looks is what make us want to approach the girl, but the ultimate make-or-break factor is her character as a whole. We too can forgo good looks if we are able to connect with the person. My 2 cents.

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Re: Female friends, early 30s and still very single.
« Reply #28 on: October 14, 2015, 11:03:57 pm »
should new members joining not be screened or at least moderated? it appears that downers are plentiful  :(
An ordinary Singaporean

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Re: Female friends, early 30s and still very single.
« Reply #29 on: October 14, 2015, 11:22:39 pm »
Hi sis, I'm not into looks and appearances. I look more for what's underneath...



















The clothes

Yes, I have many female friends that are over 30s and not married too, while some looks ok, mostly do not take good care of their body and looks. I think guys are more attracted to the beauty and appearance, so might not be one way looking at things. :(