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Feeling empty
« on: October 31, 2015, 11:46:53 pm »
many of my friends got married this year and last year. it's like the peak season to get married. while i am still here looking for my half.. will i ever find my half?

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littlesotong

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Re: Feeling empty
« Reply #1 on: October 31, 2015, 11:54:01 pm »
many of my friends got married this year and last year. it's like the peak season to get married. while i am still here looking for my half.. will i ever find my half?

it comes with age. :P let love find you, don't feel too stressed out about not finding a partner. go take up a new interest or something :)
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Re: Feeling empty
« Reply #2 on: November 01, 2015, 12:10:15 am »
Maybe take yourself outside your comfort zone and do things you wouldn't ordinarily do eg. scuba-diving, sky-diving .... can widen circle of frens etc
"A man who has depths in his shame meets his destiny and his delicate decisions upon paths which few ever reach."

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Re: Feeling empty
« Reply #3 on: November 01, 2015, 12:13:47 am »
Maybe take yourself outside your comfort zone and do things you wouldn't ordinarily do eg. scuba-diving, sky-diving .... can widen circle of frens etc

and the ever popular volunteer work.


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Re: Feeling empty
« Reply #4 on: November 01, 2015, 12:15:55 am »
and the ever popular volunteer work.

True .... :P
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Re: Feeling empty
« Reply #5 on: November 01, 2015, 12:17:55 am »
many of my friends got married this year and last year. it's like the peak season to get married. while i am still here looking for my half.. will i ever find my half?

Don't get married for the sake of getting married. Marry for the right reasons.

Try meetup.com to find guys who have similar interests as you.
Can try SDN too.
If not, dating apps such as okcupid.
However, if fren can recommend you, that will be even better.

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Re: Feeling empty
« Reply #6 on: November 01, 2015, 02:37:59 pm »
many of my friends got married this year and last year. it's like the peak season to get married. while i am still here looking for my half.. will i ever find my half?

the harder u keep finding love the further it gets away from you, if u let fate n time plays it roles u will soon find your love in unexpected places. yes it hurts u have your friends or relatives or people u know found their better half and finally tieing the knot. U feel alone left out n u beat yourself up saying when its your turn. Dont rush it, u may feel your running out of time but your not.
Because when the time comes u found that special person u will know he/she is the one and when the time comes u know your ready. The feeling is there.

Not to sound religious, but what i believe, before your born the soul was split into two, one goes into you the other to your soul mate.
Souls are like conscripted soldiers; those whom they recognize, they get along with, and those whom they do not recognize, they will not get along with.

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Re: Feeling empty
« Reply #7 on: November 01, 2015, 09:09:52 pm »
the harder u keep finding love the further it gets away from you, if u let fate n time plays it roles u will soon find your love in unexpected places. yes it hurts u have your friends or relatives or people u know found their better half and finally tieing the knot. U feel alone left out n u beat yourself up saying when its your turn. Dont rush it, u may feel your running out of time but your not.
Because when the time comes u found that special person u will know he/she is the one and when the time comes u know your ready. The feeling is there.

Not to sound religious, but what i believe, before your born the soul was split into two, one goes into you the other to your soul mate.
Souls are like conscripted soldiers; those whom they recognize, they get along with, and those whom they do not recognize, they will not get along with.

For me, i joined okcupid coz i was too bored. I dun have the intention to find a bf at all. I was planning to chat with ppl online niah. True enough, i met my bf there after using the okc for a few days.
Hmm... maybe my intention was to find someone to chat, thats why i could easily find one?

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Re: Feeling empty
« Reply #8 on: November 01, 2015, 11:35:30 pm »
come come, pm me! Never try never know!

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ccyogi

Re: Feeling empty
« Reply #9 on: November 01, 2015, 11:37:19 pm »
Don't get married for the sake of getting married. Marry for the right reasons.

Try meetup.com to find guys who have similar interests as you.
Can try SDN too.
If not, dating apps such as okcupid.
However, if fren can recommend you, that will be even better.

my friends are recommending their guy friends to me.. but yea, still no the one. in fact, my ex was a friend's friend and it didnt work out...

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ccyogi

Re: Feeling empty
« Reply #10 on: November 01, 2015, 11:38:11 pm »
come come, pm me! Never try never know!

pm you for ??? you guy?

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ccyogi

Re: Feeling empty
« Reply #11 on: November 01, 2015, 11:39:42 pm »
Maybe take yourself outside your comfort zone and do things you wouldn't ordinarily do eg. scuba-diving, sky-diving .... can widen circle of frens etc

i'm a very active person. i do yoga and scuba-dive a few times a year. i guess the time is not right yet

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ccyogi

Re: Feeling empty
« Reply #12 on: November 01, 2015, 11:41:13 pm »
For me, i joined okcupid coz i was too bored. I dun have the intention to find a bf at all. I was planning to chat with ppl online niah. True enough, i met my bf there after using the okc for a few days.
Hmm... maybe my intention was to find someone to chat, thats why i could easily find one?

does okcupid really work?? i have a friend who kept telling me to go dating online. i know it's no harm knowing more people, but trying to find a SO online just feels unreal to me..

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Re: Feeling empty
« Reply #13 on: November 01, 2015, 11:42:56 pm »
pm you for ??? you guy?

@ccyogi yes I'm a guy  ;D are you female? Then pm for chat chat  :P

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Re: Feeling empty
« Reply #14 on: November 02, 2015, 12:20:03 am »
many of my friends got married this year and last year. it's like the peak season to get married. while i am still here looking for my half.. will i ever find my half?

How old is TS?