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hi, i registered in this forum a long time ago, but have been a lurker.. reading and never participating.
i was wondering if anyone here has experience of having a fb before?

you know.. a good friend of the opposite sex, that you can talk to, and sometimes you turn to him for sex. not supposed to be in love, just for the regular sex and orgasm.

i had a few before... and recently, this close friend who turned fb. well i am not sure.
there are more emotions now.  :(

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Re: Do you have a fb or fwb? (aka friends with benefits, or fxxkbuddy)
« Reply #1 on: August 09, 2016, 10:36:54 am »
a gentleman who learns to never kiss-n-tell has gravy train long time .....  :-X
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Re: Do you have a fb or fwb? (aka friends with benefits, or fxxkbuddy)
« Reply #2 on: August 09, 2016, 12:04:24 pm »
hi, i registered in this forum a long time ago, but have been a lurker.. reading and never participating.
i was wondering if anyone here has experience of having a fb before?

you know.. a good friend of the opposite sex, that you can talk to, and sometimes you turn to him for sex. not supposed to be in love, just for the regular sex and orgasm.

i had a few before... and recently, this close friend who turned fb. well i am not sure.
there are more emotions now.  :(

Emotions as in, you realised that you have fallen in love with him?
If that is the case, i think it might be good to stop engaging sex with him for the time being until you have sorted out your feelings for him. If he is single, you can ask him if he has any romantic feelings for you too.

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Re: Do you have a fb or fwb? (aka friends with benefits, or fxxkbuddy)
« Reply #3 on: August 09, 2016, 12:42:22 pm »
Yes! If a guy says he has fweeelings for you better double confirm if the fweeeel is coming from between his legs ..... :-X

In any case, i think TS's purpose of this thread is to share tittilating stories with likeminded ladies bah? ???
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Re: Do you have a fb or fwb? (aka friends with benefits, or fxxkbuddy)
« Reply #4 on: August 09, 2016, 01:26:23 pm »
Yes! If a guy says he has fweeelings for you better double confirm if the fweeeel is coming from between his legs ..... :-X

In any case, i think TS's purpose of this thread is to share tittilating stories with likeminded ladies bah? ???

Well... i tot its just a simple thread of sharing her dilemma?

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Re: Do you have a fb or fwb? (aka friends with benefits, or fxxkbuddy)
« Reply #5 on: August 09, 2016, 01:36:24 pm »
Well... i tot its just a simple thread of sharing her dilemma?

A wise gal told me before
拿得起放得下

One must be clearminded on the onset ..... clarity of mind and purpose
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Re: Do you have a fb or fwb? (aka friends with benefits, or fxxkbuddy)
« Reply #6 on: August 09, 2016, 08:43:04 pm »
Well.. if the sex is bad and the emotions are still there, then it's true love.   :P
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Re: Do you have a fb or fwb? (aka friends with benefits, or fxxkbuddy)
« Reply #7 on: August 09, 2016, 10:29:13 pm »
Well.. if the sex is bad and the emotions are still there, then it's true love.   :P

Don't play the fool with a life sentence .... :-\
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Re: Do you have a fb or fwb? (aka friends with benefits, or fxxkbuddy)
« Reply #8 on: August 10, 2016, 03:29:50 pm »
Emotions as in, you realised that you have fallen in love with him?
If that is the case, i think it might be good to stop engaging sex with him for the time being until you have sorted out your feelings for him. If he is single, you can ask him if he has any romantic feelings for you too.

its complicated. it was started just for physical pleasure, nothing else.
but now after so many months, there are feelings.
and i think its just one-sided feelings.

i think men are capable of having sex with 0 feelings. but i feel happy whenever i get to do stuff non-related to sex now with him
 not sure if its just friendship happiness?

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Re: Do you have a fb or fwb? (aka friends with benefits, or fxxkbuddy)
« Reply #9 on: August 10, 2016, 03:49:31 pm »
actually is it morally right to have a fwb?
its just physical to me, i dont see any harm to anyone.

but now i feel sian.

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Re: Do you have a fb or fwb? (aka friends with benefits, or fxxkbuddy)
« Reply #10 on: August 10, 2016, 04:08:44 pm »
this is how STD spread  :-X :-X just be careful and use protection.

later is another guy acting female to see if can bait anything out

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Re: Do you have a fb or fwb? (aka friends with benefits, or fxxkbuddy)
« Reply #11 on: August 10, 2016, 04:21:02 pm »
its complicated. it was started just for physical pleasure, nothing else.
but now after so many months, there are feelings.
and i think its just one-sided feelings.

i think men are capable of having sex with 0 feelings. but i feel happy whenever i get to do stuff non-related to sex now with him
 not sure if its just friendship happiness?

I think you are just lonely ...... can find BFF mah ..... or work-spouse if non-sex related ......
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« Reply #12 on: August 10, 2016, 04:23:02 pm »
actually is it morally right to have a fwb?
its just physical to me, i dont see any harm to anyone.

but now i feel sian.

you feel sian and fan because you let feelings get in the way ..... 
like I said 拿得起放得下

have clarity of mind and purpose ..... don't let feelings lead you astray from the original objective ....
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Re: Do you have a fb or fwb? (aka friends with benefits, or fxxkbuddy)
« Reply #13 on: August 10, 2016, 04:25:21 pm »
this is how STD spread  :-X :-X just be careful and use protection.

later is another guy acting female to see if can bait anything out

no lah, i wont reveal any of my particular details nor PM anyone. its private.
i dun tell any of my friends for this, coz i sure they will judge me.
to me its physical, like playing tennis or netball.
its just a lot more fun. and it is.
though i didn't expect the feelings, to be frank.

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Re: Do you have a fb or fwb? (aka friends with benefits, or fxxkbuddy)
« Reply #14 on: August 10, 2016, 06:03:20 pm »
Men and Women and the Master Key/Bad Lock Analogy

I'm sure you've all heard that saying that men have, in response to why it's okay for men to sleep around, but not women:

"Well, see, if a key can open lots of locks, then it's a master key. But if a lock can be opened by lots of keys, then it's a bad lock."


Just for laugh.