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If so, is this common?

Am married, in my 30s, its a norm to be hit by boss or people working in the same building. I got into a relationship with a married man from another firm and lasted more than 3 years.

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Am married, in my 30s, its a norm to be hit by boss or people working in the same building. I got into a relationship with a married man from another firm and lasted more than 3 years.

How did you make it last 3 years?!!!   :o
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How did you make it last 3 years?!!!   :o

My job required me to work beyond 6pm .. family did not question much whenever I gave excuses not to be home for dinner or reached home late..
Initially it was tough trying Time Management as *my boss* tends to dropped last minute agenda for me to be with him.. missed my kids birthdays couple of times .. and not able to go along on family trips during their school breaks..
Sort of got into my boss demands and was addicted to the sexual plays .. guess thats why I was with him for more than 3 years

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My job required me to work beyond 6pm .. family did not question much whenever I gave excuses not to be home for dinner or reached home late..
Initially it was tough trying Time Management as *my boss* tends to dropped last minute agenda for me to be with him.. missed my kids birthdays couple of times .. and not able to go along on family trips during their school breaks..
Sort of got into my boss demands and was addicted to the sexual plays .. guess thats why I was with him for more than 3 years

I'm usually bored after 2 weeks .... 3 years is a long time and "sacrifice" for the "boss"

To get into the long game,  there must be something missing that you're hoping to get out of the relationship.

No regrets?
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I'm usually bored after 2 weeks .... 3 years is a long time and "sacrifice" for the "boss"

To get into the long game,  there must be something missing that you're hoping to get out of the relationship.

No regrets?

Regrets as mentioned is missing out of my kids birthdays and family trips ..

Maybe from a man standpoint .. it too long but for me a married woman .. hmmm I have seen my married galfriends hopping from one relationships to another .. is that good or bad? I have thought of that too when I got hit on by men and my husband's business partners ...

What I got out of the relationship is more on the sexual needs .. which was lacking after kids is out .. the 3 years+ provide me an outlet to enjoy interracial sex .. something to look forward to beside the boring 9-6 and marriage ...



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Regrets as mentioned is missing out of my kids birthdays and family trips ..

Maybe from a man standpoint .. it too long but for me a married woman .. hmmm I have seen my married galfriends hopping from one relationships to another .. is that good or bad? I have thought of that too when I got hit on by men and my husband's business partners ...

What I got out of the relationship is more on the sexual needs .. which was lacking after kids is out .. the 3 years+ provide me an outlet to enjoy interracial sex .. something to look forward to beside the boring 9-6 and marriage ...

Seeking validation from outside your marriage when the hubby/wifey is not giving any ....

KTV lounge gal told unker before "拿得起放得下" - so long as one has clarity of mind and purpose ...
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Seeking validation from outside your marriage when the hubby/wifey is not giving any ....

KTV lounge gal told unker before "拿得起放得下" - so long as one has clarity of mind and purpose ...

its the looking back that hurts when missing out of family events ..

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its the looking back that hurts when missing out of family events ..

"Yesterday's the past, tomorro's the future, but today is a gift. That's why it's called the present"  - Bil Keane
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"Yesterday's the past, tomorro's the future, but today is a gift. That's why it's called the present"  - Bil Keane

LOL ... thanks for the immoral supports.. have a great Wed

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But yeah .... we need titillating stories to pass time this slow  Wednesday afternoon.
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But yeah .... we need titillating stories to pass time this slow  Wednesday afternoon.

slow Wed ending soon

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slow Wed ending soon

LoL .... i started happyhour liao at 430pm ...  :-X
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LoL .... i started happyhour liao at 430pm ...  :-X

envy you till death ... hahahaha

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envy you till death ... hahahaha

Unker adopted YOLO gen philosophy .... tee hee hee  :P
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Alot of people are doing this as long as their spouse don't find out. It seems to be something of a norm now. I have a friend who is married, his wife used to cheat on him and then he changed his mentality about marriage. Since she cheat on him, he also can cheat on her with his friends. So yeah. Its part and parcel of marriage now apparently.

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