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If so, is this common?

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 >:( It is common among my friends. But... I just feel sad for their future spouse when they gonna get married and live together. people who engage in this kind of activities will just lose the essence of knowing what is intimacy when they are really serious in wanting to commit to a relationship in future. 

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If so, is this common?

depends on the generation. 

my generation only reserve sex for after marriage 8)
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>:( It is common among my friends. But... I just feel sad for their future spouse when they gonna get married and live together. people who engage in this kind of activities will just lose the essence of knowing what is intimacy when they are really serious in wanting to commit to a relationship in future.

my YOLO millennial friends told me that I am too "old-fashioned" and that I need to keep up with the times ....  must learn to accept all these liberal ideas like LGBTQ / FWB / NSA / ONS etc etc .....

i'm learning and trying to keep up ....

YOLO FTW !
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This is the way to go man.. Like honestly..


depends on the generation. 

my generation only reserve sex for after marriage 8)

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Well.. we can be up to date with the current affairs and trends set by the millennials or this new generation ba. But it doesn't mean that we have to be like them and blend in with them.
There are a lot of things done now in today's era which is common while it may be a taboo in the past.
After all, Singapore would not be where we are today if not for the older generations that paths out that kind of culture back then. Not sure if you get what I am trying to bring across. But.. yea. Call me "lao tu" or what. But when it comes to things like marriage or what, there are things that we just got to be firm in it bah in terms of our convictions or what.  :-X

my YOLO millennial friends told me that I am too "old-fashioned" and that I need to keep up with the times ....  must learn to accept all these liberal ideas like LGBTQ / FWB / NSA / ONS etc etc .....

i'm learning and trying to keep up ....

YOLO FTW !

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Well.. we can be up to date with the current affairs and trends set by the millennials or this new generation ba. But it doesn't mean that we have to be like them and blend in with them.
There are a lot of things done now in today's era which is common while it may be a taboo in the past.
After all, Singapore would not be where we are today if not for the older generations that paths out that kind of culture back then. Not sure if you get what I am trying to bring across. But.. yea. Call me "lao tu" or what. But when it comes to things like marriage or what, there are things that we just got to be firm in it bah in terms of our convictions or what.  :-X

*haiz* ... what to do .... must 面对潮流 ... :-*

ONS and FWB is normal liao ...
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depends on the generation. 

my generation only reserve sex for after marriage 8)

U got follow ur generation onot  :-X
I thought u often go pub to look for ons drinks
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I heard is very common nowadays coz last time watch bigo they always talk about it.

For me I don't care what others do, they happy can liao. But I stay to my own values.

Actually I hv never cared abt what others do in any situation, I just do what I think it's right. So whether it's common or rare is not in my interest. Strangely I always happen to be in the rarity team  :-X . But I always have an inner sanctuary to support myself, the rest are white noise. Because a lion doesn't care abt the opinion of a sheep.
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U got follow ur generation onot  :-X
I thought u often go pub to look for ons drinks
:o :o :o :o .... looking for 闪友 very different from ONS horrrr ....  :o :o :o
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:o :o :o :o .... looking for 闪友 very different from ONS horrrr ....  :o :o :o

You mean u go there look for flash friends?  ???
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You mean u go there look for flash friends?  ???

yes .... clubbing good place to know 闪友 de ....
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Lol... can enlighten me abit? What's ONS and FWB?

*haiz* ... what to do .... must 面对潮流 ... :-*

ONS and FWB is normal liao ...

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Lol... can enlighten me abit? What's ONS and FWB?

Xiao didi better go study hard .... don't learn this kind of nonsense things ....not good for your soul and salvation .... :-[
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so what if yes? alot of US firms are accepting such status within SG. Don't ask me about moral values, i think moral values are a thing in the past. Just like freedom to love was new long long time ago..
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