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Do girls really believe guys love the chase becos of thrill?
« on: March 05, 2016, 08:18:39 pm »
Actually it's not lah. Guys hate to chase becos it's tiring and effort. They put up with it for the first few months in order to get her. It's simply unsustainable to keep the same level of effort throughout the relationship.

I see article like below is wholly misconceived.
http://mandecoder.com/why-men-lose-interest-and-what-to-do-about-it

Just to let the girls here know that "guys do not live for the chase" - it's a myth. The truth is "guys tolerate the work for first few months only". After that, he will back down slightly, if she is really someone he likes then he will continue.

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Re: Do girls really believe guys love the chase becos of thrill?
« Reply #1 on: March 05, 2016, 09:53:54 pm »
Actually it's not lah. Guys hate to chase becos it's tiring and effort. They put up with it for the first few months in order to get her. It's simply unsustainable to keep the same level of effort throughout the relationship.

I see article like below is wholly misconceived.
http://mandecoder.com/why-men-lose-interest-and-what-to-do-about-it

Just to let the girls here know that "guys do not live for the chase" - it's a myth. The truth is "guys tolerate the work for first few months only". After that, he will back down slightly, if she is really someone he likes then he will continue.

I tot it's an automatic thg if let's say u like the girl u will do thgs that make her smile more
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Re: Do girls really believe guys love the chase becos of thrill?
« Reply #2 on: March 05, 2016, 10:21:50 pm »
The journey is the destination .... the chase gives the "quickening" .... big let-down after you get her number or upz her ...  :(
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Re: Do girls really believe guys love the chase becos of thrill?
« Reply #3 on: March 05, 2016, 11:01:15 pm »
The harder it is to get something, the more you will yearn for it.
But once u get it, it may not be the thing u are really looking for.
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Re: Do girls really believe guys love the chase becos of thrill?
« Reply #4 on: March 05, 2016, 11:19:26 pm »
My ah boy says the chase is stressful  :-\

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Re: Do girls really believe guys love the chase becos of thrill?
« Reply #5 on: March 06, 2016, 04:05:43 am »
guys chase already den slack off lo.

we dun yearn for thrills but if it gets too long in this state the feeling drains away unknowingly.
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Re: Do girls really believe guys love the chase becos of thrill?
« Reply #6 on: March 06, 2016, 08:25:14 am »
of course chasing the same one over a prolonged period is stressful :(

better to have short quick chases with different ones ....  :-* :-* :-*
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Re: Do girls really believe guys love the chase becos of thrill?
« Reply #7 on: March 06, 2016, 08:46:35 am »
of course chasing the same one over a prolonged period is stressful :(

better to have short quick chases with different ones ....  :-* :-* :-*
That's exactly how the big cats hunt in Africa.  :o
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« Reply #8 on: March 06, 2016, 09:13:51 am »
That's exactly how the big cats hunt in Africa.  :o

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Re: Do girls really believe guys love the chase becos of thrill?
« Reply #9 on: March 06, 2016, 01:12:28 pm »
I don't think guys like to chase but if they don't, most of the times, their chance of getting a girlfriend is close to 0. Thats why, they have no choice. But sometimes, even if they chase, there is also no gaurantee that they will get the girls.
So, what if the girl chases after the guy? Will her chance of getting a guy higher?

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« Reply #10 on: March 06, 2016, 02:32:19 pm »
I don't think guys like to chase but if they don't, most of the times, their chance of getting a girlfriend is close to 0. Thats why, they have no choice. But sometimes, even if they chase, there is also no gaurantee that they will get the girls.

If they don't get gals, they will become bitter and rant on forums :(

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So, what if the girl chases after the guy? Will her chance of getting a guy higher?

Getting guys will be easy, keeping guy is another matter altogether .... where do you think the balance of power would rest - guy's hands or gal's hand?
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« Reply #11 on: March 06, 2016, 02:36:24 pm »
If they don't get gals, they will become bitter and rant on forums :(

Getting guys will be easy, keeping guy is another matter altogether .... where do you think the balance of power would rest - guy's hands or gal's hand?

Yeah actually single has lots of benefits for guys. The time, money, effort can go into self-care and hobby.

If guys all realise the false dreams about girls, and stopped pursuing girls. Girls would be in trouble. Look at japan, the girls there are desperate because the japanese guys do not want to be fathers.

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Re: Do girls really believe guys love the chase becos of thrill?
« Reply #12 on: March 06, 2016, 03:53:55 pm »
Yeah actually single has lots of benefits for guys. The time, money, effort can go into self-care and hobby.

If guys all realise the false dreams about girls, and stopped pursuing girls. Girls would be in trouble. Look at japan, the girls there are desperate because the japanese guys do not want to be fathers.

Yes ! Let's make gals suffer by not pursuing them !  >:( >:( >:(  .... make them realize what a precious commodity men are .... make them regret big-time for not accepting us readily!  8)

Soon they will be crawling to us on bended knees !  :-X
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Re: Do girls really believe guys love the chase becos of thrill?
« Reply #13 on: March 06, 2016, 04:21:27 pm »
Yes ! Let's make gals suffer by not pursuing them !  >:( >:( >:(  .... make them realize what a precious commodity men are .... make them regret big-time for not accepting us readily!  8)

Soon they will be crawling to us on bended knees !  :-X
While you are doing the boycotting, other men will be on standby to kio liu lian.  ;D
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Re: Do girls really believe guys love the chase becos of thrill?
« Reply #14 on: March 06, 2016, 05:19:57 pm »
If they don't get gals, they will become bitter and rant on forums :(

Getting guys will be easy, keeping guy is another matter altogether .... where do you think the balance of power would rest - guy's hands or gal's hand?

@beaverjuice Balance of power? Do you mean to say those who chase, the balance of power will rest on the person who is being wooed?

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