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Posted by: beaverjuice
« on: October 25, 2015, 11:16:57 am »

Don't try to psychoanalyse me.
actually I'm also rather interested to know .....  :P

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His job required him to be away too often. I felt he was also losing interest, so I called it quits.

ermmmm ...... you met both married guys in a club?


ps:  this is my bergin post, so please treat me gently okies .... :'(
Posted by: nomnom
« on: October 20, 2015, 08:51:19 am »

TS, since you posted your dilemma here, i am sure that you felt something is wrong.
Married men will lose interest in you, faster than you think.
Actually, you have more things to lose than gain.
You will not be able to find a decent guy if you are still with the married man because you will keep comparing the 2 men.
Of course, you will find the married man more interesting because he can talk well. Local guys are generally more of a "blockhead" before they are married. (Sorry, guys!) If they talk well, most likely they are either in Sales line or players.
The longer you are with married man, the deeper the hole that u drop into and there is no turning back. You will also begin to lose faith in guys and not trust them anymore. Why? Because if you can be with a married man, you may think that your future boyfriend/husband might have a woman outside too.
Sit down and think through it.
Let's not go into the facts that the married man's family might be destroyed because of you because i don't think you really care about that at all.

Posted by: mydarksecret
« on: October 19, 2015, 09:51:24 pm »

A question to TS,

Do you hate your mother? And how is your relationship with your father?

Don't try to psychoanalyse me.

TS, why did u break up with the 1st married man?

His job required him to be away too often. I felt he was also losing interest, so I called it quits.
Posted by: nomnom
« on: October 19, 2015, 09:41:47 pm »

TS, why did u break up with the 1st married man?
Posted by: Maserati4
« on: October 19, 2015, 07:04:51 pm »

I have a friend who also tend to attract married men. I can scold her but she wouldn't listen so I don't think u would too. You yourself know it's wrong but u wanna stick around.
That's just called Sl*tty. Sorry,not sorry.
Posted by: foxfoo
« on: October 19, 2015, 04:45:50 pm »

I am in my mid-twenties now and my boyfriend is in his early-forties. We met at a club last year and somehow we just starting going out. Things progressed and now we are in an intimate relationship. He is really nice to me and I like him... the only catch is that he is married.

Because of that, I feel like breaking up with him because I want to get married and to someone closer to my age. But part of me also feels that it is a waste since he is very attentive, showers a lot of attention on me and also drives me wherever I want to go.

To be honest, he is the second married man I have dated so I don't think I feel guilty towards his wife, but it also doesn't feel like a steady relationship. So should I just break up with him now or just hang around until someone who I see myself marrying comes along? And would it be OK to tell whoever future husband is that I used to date married men? Do guys get affected by things like that?

http://familyshare.com/marriage/why-do-some-women-have-affairs-with-married-men

Good reading, worth your time.2
Posted by: EveGarden
« on: October 19, 2015, 04:42:01 pm »

maybe the wife will hire another mistress to steal the attention away lor.. like the news yesterday ::)
Posted by: Piglet
« on: October 19, 2015, 03:13:00 pm »

a guy that you know in a pub/club. will not get serious with you especially he is married. he only wan to toy with you.

unless you dun mind be call a vixen and get throw away in the end just go ahead
Posted by: Seriousfreak
« on: October 19, 2015, 01:55:38 pm »

A question to TS,

Do you hate your mother? And how is your relationship with your father?
Posted by: BMW
« on: October 19, 2015, 01:24:32 pm »

Maybe I lied about my age. Regardless, I don't intend to have kids so I think my deadline isn't that close.

You are probably right. I have no intention of being a mother to his children either.

I will bide my time I suppose.

I wouldn't consider myself the prettiest thing around. But there are other ways of being attractive. Somehow, it seems like married men tend to be the type that fall for me. Hence my predicament.

hmm seems like a sugar babe/daddy relationship to me...just feel gifting can be done by bf too...just get someone who has enough moolah to do that...
Posted by: loonzz
« on: October 18, 2015, 11:30:28 am »

TS, why do you want to subject yourself to that kind of life/guy?
He is not worth it.
I am sure there are better guys out there for you! Just take your time and find!

TS seems like enjoying her affair with married man. My take is they deserve each other. Just pity the wife and children. Hope his wife pawn him with WC deep deep.
Posted by: nomnom
« on: October 18, 2015, 11:00:02 am »

TS, why do you want to subject yourself to that kind of life/guy?
He is not worth it.
I am sure there are better guys out there for you! Just take your time and find!
Posted by: tauhuay
« on: October 18, 2015, 10:55:23 am »

Thank you for contributing to the plethora of individuals who face difficulties in life

She is thinking with her boobs.
Posted by: Farmer Brown
« on: October 18, 2015, 10:44:54 am »

I'm not thinking too far into the future. I'm comfortable now and it is unlikely that we will be found out. However, I do also feel that this won't go on forever. It's like being addicted to a drug or even to smoking. You know you should stop, but you can't.

Thank you for contributing to the plethora of individuals who face difficulties in life
Posted by: tauhuay
« on: October 17, 2015, 10:11:47 pm »

Their wives never come and hit you?