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"A man who has depths in his shame meets his destiny and his delicate decisions upon paths which few ever reach."

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http://singaporeseen.stomp.com.sg/this-urban-jungle/confessions-of-an-ex-mistress-if-you-fall-in-love-with-a-married-man-run-like

good article to share with potential mistresses ....  8)

Its difficult lah...
They always think it won't happen to them coz their love is great. Love will overcome everything.
And cant believe what the married man say if they tell you that they dun love their wives anymore and blah blah blah...

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I tot mistresses are out for money.
this mistress is special.
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I tot mistresses are out for money.
this mistress is special.

mistresses are always special de mah ....  :-*

she took the road less travelled and paid the price and now she's trying to ruin the chances of men who can afford mistresses ... >:(
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I tot mistresses are out for money.
this mistress is special.

Not all are out for money...

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Not all are out for money...

Errrmmmm .... companionship? ???
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Errrmmmm .... companionship? ???

Some gals din even noe that the guys are married...

Some gals want to have the feeling of being in love but fear of commitment/getting married...

Some just like the thrill of it and wanted to prove to others that they have the charms...


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Not all are out for money...

lol. I think in this type of r/s other thn temporary money nth else can be achieved.
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Some gals din even noe that the guys are married...
@nomnom

didn't know and don't want to know are different things ....  :-X

if he isn't available for a stay-over or not available on weekend - it would arouse a gal's suspicions liao ..... wouldn't that be painfully obvious unless she chooses to be oblivious

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Some gals want to have the feeling of being in love but fear of commitment/getting married...

fweeeeeeling of luuuuuurve can get from any guy de mah .... not necessarily just only from married men .....  :P

if fear of commitment/getting married, they can find those guys in clubs and play them  :-X

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Some just like the thrill of it and wanted to prove to others that they have the charms...

seeking validation that they are attractive or still have what it takes to be attractive can apply to any guy too .... again not necessarily from married men .....  :-X

but I can understand the thrill of aiming for those 不可达到的东西 .... :-[
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stories like that very common .. They wan steal eat but  90% will  never leave the wife ..coz divorce too ex / custody of child/ maintainence fee to pay ::)

男人有钱就变坏
女人变坏才有钱
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stories like that very common .. They wan steal eat but  90% will  never leave the wife ..coz divorce too ex / custody of child/ maintainence fee to pay ::)

男人有钱就变坏
女人变坏才有钱

难怪我坏不起来。。

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难怪我坏不起来。。

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@FatNeko - I thought you already bad bad kitty? ???
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@FatNeko - I thought you already bad bad kitty? ???

@beaverjuice me notti kitty but not bad...

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i got two friends my age who shared with me their experiences and reasons for dating married men.

while it is partially true that married men tend to be more generous with their gifts (some are older hence more earning power mah), both of them expressed that they enjoy dating married men for the thrill and the simple fact that they feel more desired becoz these men chose them over their wives.

personally i find it sick, becoz coming from a loving family, i will be super upset if i found out that my dad is seeing someone else other than my mum.. i've stopped mixing with these two girlfriends becoz i rly dun like it when they try to brainwash me to try dating married ppl becoz cheating is cheating. n causing an entire family to fall apart is a super big deal to me.
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i got two friends my age who shared with me their experiences and reasons for dating married men.

while it is partially true that married men tend to be more generous with their gifts (some are older hence more earning power mah), both of them expressed that they enjoy dating married men for the thrill and the simple fact that they feel more desired becoz these men chose them over their wives.

personally i find it sick, becoz coming from a loving family, i will be super upset if i found out that my dad is seeing someone else other than my mum.. i've stopped mixing with these two girlfriends becoz i rly dun like it when they try to brainwash me to try dating married ppl becoz cheating is cheating. n causing an entire family to fall apart is a super big deal to me.

@littlesotong -  errrmmmmm ..... I don't think it is because these men chose them over their wives .... it was never because of "choosing" but rather because of convenience and availability.

at the end of the day,  the men will go home to their wives.

these gals are just afternoon delights - a passing distraction and more importantly the married guys feel "validated" that they are still wanted by sweet young things and sweet old things even after they are balding and paunchy...... ;)
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