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compensation money when you break up with your SO.
« on: November 17, 2015, 12:33:36 pm »
I was listening to 988 FM Malaysia radio station and they talked about Helen who broke up with her bf n she asked for compensation.

It struck me I never asked for any compensation at all.

There response from on-air and wechat said that we ladies should state out on a bill the time we spent with him and all the expenses she paid. He has to pay.

Another lady said the guy asked for compensation and she returned her gifts, gold jewellery and laptop. She has to return $5000 to him too. She said that she rather donate the money to charity than give him back.

What is your response if your SO asked for compensation? ???

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Re: compensation money when you break up with your SO.
« Reply #1 on: November 17, 2015, 12:35:28 pm »
My view is that since both go out paktor we should spend on the amount we are comfortable with and not ask for compensation if the relationship fails

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Re: compensation money when you break up with your SO.
« Reply #2 on: November 17, 2015, 01:49:09 pm »
My view is that since both go out paktor we should spend on the amount we are comfortable with and not ask for compensation if the relationship fails

same lo.. really siao to ask for compensation
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Re: compensation money when you break up with your SO.
« Reply #3 on: November 17, 2015, 02:39:56 pm »
gives him 2 tight slap + 1 flying kick


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Re: compensation money when you break up with your SO.
« Reply #4 on: November 17, 2015, 04:31:31 pm »
@tauhuay -  I think the guy who asked for compensation is confused with enjo-kosai liao ..... maybe in japenis situation got like this but here in Singapore where got like that de? ???  :o

I think the fact that a young pretty young thing cares enough to hang on your arm and make passerbys gape and wonder is compensation enough .... at least to me larrrrr ......

those fellas are really too much if you ask me .... must give them the 無影腳 treatment and kick them to jurong ...
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Re: compensation money when you break up with your SO.
« Reply #5 on: November 17, 2015, 05:03:00 pm »
Serious? Really siao loh. when you are in a relationship, everything is of own will deh... after break up, then lidat...

next time, sign a prenuptial agreement loh...

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Re: compensation money when you break up with your SO.
« Reply #6 on: November 17, 2015, 05:06:31 pm »
hear before many times. both guys and girls...

really dunno what they thinking

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Re: compensation money when you break up with your SO.
« Reply #7 on: November 17, 2015, 05:06:50 pm »
Serious? Really siao loh. when you are in a relationship, everything is of own will deh... after break up, then lidat...

next time, sign a prenuptial agreement loh...

this will be pre-stead agreement

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« Reply #8 on: November 17, 2015, 05:11:32 pm »
Serious? Really siao loh. when you are in a relationship, everything is of own will deh... after break up, then lidat...

next time, sign a prenuptial agreement loh...

@nomnom - maybe ask for deposit as proof of honourable intentions bah? ???
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« Reply #9 on: November 17, 2015, 05:13:32 pm »
this will be pre-stead agreement

wah... i only thought of prenuptial agreement niah... pre-stead agreement seems a bit jialat lidat...

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« Reply #10 on: November 17, 2015, 05:15:24 pm »
@nomnom - maybe ask for deposit as proof of honourable intentions bah? ???

@beaverjuice my boyfriend pays 70% of the time leh. I pay 30% leh.... lidat cannot!  :-[

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« Reply #11 on: November 17, 2015, 05:15:53 pm »
Got one girl relationship end Liao found out got pregnant n showed him the ultrasound scan he also dun want to pay...

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« Reply #12 on: November 17, 2015, 05:16:49 pm »
@beaverjuice my boyfriend pays 70% of the time leh. I pay 30% leh.... lidat cannot!  :-[

aiyoohhhh ..... wah like that he on the losing end leh ....  I feel for him man .....  :P :-X
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Re: compensation money when you break up with your SO.
« Reply #13 on: November 17, 2015, 05:17:00 pm »
@nomnom - maybe ask for deposit as proof of honourable intentions bah? ???

Got such thing wan ah I don't know...I am so out of touch with the dating scene

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Re: compensation money when you break up with your SO.
« Reply #14 on: November 17, 2015, 05:19:19 pm »

Can ask for your time compensation? One hr you earn how much u ask him compensate lor

Like this is no difference from a prostitute

And I did hear of my sis friend return back whatever the guy bought for her