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« Reply #30 on: November 22, 2017, 08:39:33 pm »
And she also met my sister and her family. My parents are going to meet her when they fly back from holiday.

But u show her butt and boob to ppl publicly... abit havoc wor. And somewhat misogynistic. Unless that was FL but the place somewhat rundown?  ??? :(

If she loves trouble. She will stick with this type until this type shows stability then she will escape.
I've always wonder, if people can't be depended on, what are their use values?
If I'm totally independent, why do I need people buzzing around me.. hmm..

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« Reply #31 on: November 22, 2017, 09:32:52 pm »
But u show her butt and boob to ppl publicly... abit havoc wor. And somewhat misogynistic. Unless that was FL but the place somewhat rundown?  ??? :(

If she loves trouble. She will stick with this type until this type shows stability then she will escape.

The butt quite tight ...  :-X
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« Reply #32 on: November 22, 2017, 11:20:48 pm »
The butt quite tight ...  :-X

Yeah after he play finish maybe can pass to the brothers lol
I've always wonder, if people can't be depended on, what are their use values?
If I'm totally independent, why do I need people buzzing around me.. hmm..

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« Reply #33 on: November 22, 2017, 11:50:25 pm »
Yeah after he play finish maybe can pass to the brothers lol

There is no honour amongst thieves but surely the brotherhood must stay strong together... .. tee hee hee ... :-*
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« Reply #34 on: November 23, 2017, 03:33:18 pm »
Yeah after he play finish maybe can pass to the brothers lol

No lah I'm not like that. Anyway, I'm enjoying my life with her now. She really cares for me, cooks for me, buys me little cutesy stuff . I have managed to secretly get her chat history with this guy , and nothing seems hanky panky after the date we got together. In the bedroom, there are things that my ex wouldn't do, she loves. That's all I'll say. I think I'll take a chance with her.

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« Reply #35 on: November 23, 2017, 04:11:16 pm »
No lah I'm not like that. Anyway, I'm enjoying my life with her now. She really cares for me, cooks for me, buys me little cutesy stuff . I have managed to secretly get her chat history with this guy , and nothing seems hanky panky after the date we got together. In the bedroom, there are things that my ex wouldn't do, she loves. That's all I'll say. I think I'll take a chance with her.

stay strong bro .... all the best ! ..... bedminton skills is important but also focus on building and cherishing the relationship ..... gambatte !
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« Reply #36 on: November 30, 2017, 11:00:09 am »
Now I got new problem....
I keep fantasizing about the things she wrote in her sms and email and the pictures she sent to him....
I find myself wanting to ask her to do things like in the email. I want her to use the same affectionate terms of endearment she used with him . She calls me things like baby and dearie. But in the sms and emails with that married guy, she used things like BB. I just want her to call me BB.

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« Reply #37 on: November 30, 2017, 12:09:34 pm »
Now I got new problem....
I keep fantasizing about the things she wrote in her sms and email and the pictures she sent to him....
I find myself wanting to ask her to do things like in the email. I want her to use the same affectionate terms of endearment she used with him . She calls me things like baby and dearie. But in the sms and emails with that married guy, she used things like BB. I just want her to call me BB.

Is this weird?

bro' -  is this day 60 yet?

one has never reached one's destination driving through the rear-view mirror .... always look forward .... gambatte !

PS:  our SO (significant other) will have different terms of endearment for us.  otherwise they might mix up their ex-es .....  don't read too much into it okies ....
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« Reply #38 on: December 22, 2017, 10:40:48 am »
bro' -  is this day 60 yet?

one has never reached one's destination driving through the rear-view mirror .... always look forward .... gambatte !

PS:  our SO (significant other) will have different terms of endearment for us.  otherwise they might mix up their ex-es .....  don't read too much into it okies ....

Now other problem is jealousy. I'm jealous that she acted like sexy slutty mistress with him but act like good girlfriend with me...... never send me any naughty pics, never send email saying she wants me sexually etc..... When I asked for naughty pics and she just act all angelic and smile, I really lost it with her. I remember myself saying some really nasty stuff : 'OK lor, I go home to my other GF  since
you wont' give me notti pics' She just kept silent after that for a while, then changed the subject to something else like dinner and Christmas song.... I feel so bad now. How to overcome this?   I remember saying things like ' Hey, why that guy can have two women, but I cannot? '

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« Reply #39 on: December 22, 2017, 10:51:13 am »
Now other problem is jealousy. I'm jealous that she acted like sexy slutty mistress with him but act like good girlfriend with me...... never send me any naughty pics, never send email saying she wants me sexually etc..... When I asked for naughty pics and she just act all angelic and smile, I really lost it with her. I remember myself saying some really nasty stuff : 'OK lor, I go home to my other GF  since
you wont' give me notti pics' She just kept silent after that for a while, then changed the subject to something else like dinner and Christmas song.... I feel so bad now. How to overcome this?   I remember saying things like ' Hey, why that guy can have two women, but I cannot? '

Hey bro', i think it is precisely why she chose u over him. That you are different from the other guy .... 

Saying all these out of spite or whatever is not doing the relationship any good. 

You want to drive her back to the other married guy just when she broke free from his clutches? ??? She is seeking redemption from her past .... so don't use the past to spite or bring her down

If you love her, you are suppose to edify her .... edify the relationship

If you still want naughty pics then may i direct you to my hotbabes and hotmoms thread

http://petalbytes.com/interest-groups/hot-babes/

http://petalbytes.com/interest-groups/hot-moms/



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« Reply #40 on: December 22, 2017, 12:02:05 pm »
Hey bro', i think it is precisely why she chose u over him. That you are different from the other guy .... 

Saying all these out of spite or whatever is not doing the relationship any good. 

You want to drive her back to the other married guy just when she broke free from his clutches? ??? She is seeking redemption from her past .... so don't use the past to spite or bring her down

If you love her, you are suppose to edify her .... edify the relationship

If you still want naughty pics then may i direct you to my hotbabes and hotmoms thread

http://petalbytes.com/interest-groups/hot-babes/

http://petalbytes.com/interest-groups/hot-moms/

Given the choice, would a guy rather be the forbidden lover who has women act sexy around them, or be the goody two shoes 'safe ' boyfriend. ..... It feels so emasculating. Like somehow she find me less sexually attractive because she doesn't want to act slutty for  and send me naughty picture. 

You know why payslips are confidential? Cause there will be a lot of unhappiness if you know a former worker got more than you for being the same position.

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« Reply #41 on: December 22, 2017, 12:14:59 pm »
Given the choice, would a guy rather be the forbidden lover who has women act sexy around them, or be the goody two shoes 'safe ' boyfriend. ..... It feels so emasculating. Like somehow she find me less sexually attractive because she doesn't want to act slutty for  and send me naughty picture. 

You know why payslips are confidential? Cause there will be a lot of unhappiness if you know a former worker got more than you for being the same position.

Bro' .... the grass always seems greener on the other side of the fence  ;)

U can always hook some SYT to act sexy and do unspeakable acts to you or you on her which your wife or galfren wouldn't.... but you will always picture yourself growing old next to the one you love ....

If her past mistakes keep gnawing at you at the back of your mind, i'm afraid your r/s with her wouldn't progress very much at all

You love her when she is least lovable or when she needs it most... that's when u know ...
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« Reply #42 on: December 22, 2017, 03:06:48 pm »
Bro' .... the grass always seems greener on the other side of the fence  ;)

U can always hook some SYT to act sexy and do unspeakable acts to you or you on her which your wife or galfren wouldn't.... but you will always picture yourself growing old next to the one you love ....

If her past mistakes keep gnawing at you at the back of your mind, i'm afraid your r/s with her wouldn't progress very much at all

You love her when she is least lovable or when she needs it most... that's when u know ...

I love her. But why is it so unfair? Why? Why can't I have the good girlfriend as a public persona, and a sexy mistress persona in private? Why does she feel like she can't act sexy and slutty around me? Will she ever do that for me? Will I ever be that guy who she lusts after ???????? 
Why am I being held to a different moral standard than him?  Whats wrong with sending your legitimate boyfriend sexy pic to let him know he is special to you???? Why only him? Not me?????? I know, I know... there are things that I can have that he cannot, like legitimacy, acceptance from her family and social circle etc. But is legitimacy love? NO.  It is not intimate. It is what you show the outside world. But notty pics, naughty emails etc are an expression of intimacy with people you LOVE and LUST after...... 

I'm so scared now. What if one day we argue,  I bring out her past to attack her?
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« Reply #43 on: December 22, 2017, 03:13:34 pm »
I love her. But why is it so unfair? Why? Why can't I have the good girlfriend as a public persona, and a sexy mistress persona in private? Why does she feel like she can't act sexy and slutty around me? Will she ever do that for me? Will I ever be that guy who she lusts after ???????? 
Why am I being held to a different moral standard than him?  Whats wrong with sending your legitimate boyfriend sexy pic to let him know he is special to you???? Why only him? Not me??????

Maybe once bitten twice shy? ???
What if you shared her sexy pics with your best mates? ???

It is the same conundrum faced by many guys as to why aren't you the first she gave her virginity to ...

She's probably wiser now ....
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« Reply #44 on: December 22, 2017, 03:27:17 pm »
Maybe once bitten twice shy? ???
What if you shared her sexy pics with your best mates? ???

It is the same conundrum faced by many guys as to why aren't you the first she gave her virginity to ...

She's probably wiser now ....

Can I take this to mean that I am less sexually attractive to her than him...??????  I'm just the safe boyfriend who she has OK sex with, socially acceptable, good stable job, good marriage partner..... .
That is not fair!!!!

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