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Are you using Tinder to find love?
« on: December 28, 2015, 11:48:48 am »
How's the app so far?  8)

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Re: Are you using Tinder to find love?
« Reply #1 on: December 28, 2015, 12:09:46 pm »
It's more like finding flings than true love there. :-[

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« Reply #2 on: December 28, 2015, 12:24:41 pm »
It's more like finding flings than true love there. :-[

@PikAgasm Are you serious?

@Bluah I have no idea coz i have never use that app before.

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« Reply #3 on: December 28, 2015, 01:07:14 pm »
It's more like finding flings than true love there. :-[

i've heard that its full of perverts! :(


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« Reply #4 on: December 28, 2015, 02:07:04 pm »
sounds like lots of pervert to me too! but my friend did find a decent (might be too early to say) guy friend from there. okcupid is better I heard.
didn't like the concept of dating app as all are just looking for gf and bf. would be nice if there is a app for making friends without any motives  :-X

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« Reply #5 on: December 28, 2015, 06:30:40 pm »
sounds like lots of pervert to me too! but my friend did find a decent (might be too early to say) guy friend from there. okcupid is better I heard.
didn't like the concept of dating app as all are just looking for gf and bf. would be nice if there is a app for making friends without any motives  :-X

lol hard to hv such an act blur app.
most make frens w intentions.
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Re: Are you using Tinder to find love?
« Reply #6 on: December 28, 2015, 08:07:30 pm »
sounds like lots of pervert to me too! but my friend did find a decent (might be too early to say) guy friend from there. okcupid is better I heard.
didn't like the concept of dating app as all are just looking for gf and bf. would be nice if there is a app for making friends without any motives  :-X

Meetup.com lor

Look for activities to do , then befriend those with similar interests.

Like hiking , rock climbing , eating , ktv-ing , etc .
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« Reply #7 on: December 28, 2015, 09:56:55 pm »
"A woman may very well form a friendship with a man, but for this to endure, it must be assisted by a little physical antipathy" ....  :-X
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« Reply #8 on: December 28, 2015, 10:59:06 pm »
Meetup.com lor

Look for activities to do , then befriend those with similar interests.

Like hiking , rock climbing , eating , ktv-ing , etc .

I tried that when i was studying overseas and found a friend that i still keep in contact with after i am back in sg. Quite a good concept i think. Didnt know it is available in sg as well.

I feel that even when looking for future partner, becoming friends first doesn't make the process seems like some match making session, not suitable pls go away kind.

I heard from my hair dresser that one of her customer get to know a guy from dating app and in the end got cheated. The guy is getting married but lied to her that he is single. Got cheated of her body already  :-\

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« Reply #9 on: December 28, 2015, 10:59:57 pm »
Meetup.com app is good for making friends. I have never tried it but the idea of the app is good.

Online dating apps inevitably will have decent and indecent motives. This really depends on ur 'eyes' to filter out the bad ones.

I have tried Tinder but with little success. I guess the app is based more on first impressions or looks to decide whether there is a match or not. Im very avg looks so probably thats why i have been overlooked most of times.
Im still using Okcupid and maybe because of the options to write-up myself other than based on first impressions, chances are little better.

Ladies on online apps are more often than not swarm with msgs definitely..  ::) ::)
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« Reply #10 on: December 28, 2015, 11:06:38 pm »
I tried that when i was studying overseas and found a friend that i still keep in contact with after i am back in sg. Quite a good concept i think. Didnt know it is available in sg as well.

I feel that even when looking for future partner, becoming friends first doesn't make the process seems like some match making session, not suitable pls go away kind.

I heard from my hair dresser that one of her customer get to know a guy from dating app and in the end got cheated. The guy is getting married but lied to her that he is single. Got cheated of her body already  :-\

I guess the girl was smitten by the guy it seems. Really gotta be careful and have reservations because u basically know nothing about the guy before this.
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« Reply #11 on: December 28, 2015, 11:25:18 pm »
Dating apps and dating agencies sets up expectations  .... something you can't shake from the back of your mind ... always this niggling feeling that you're not really yourself because you have to put your best foot forward or be on your best behaviour :(
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« Reply #12 on: December 29, 2015, 04:56:53 pm »
Meetup.com app is good for making friends. I have never tried it but the idea of the app is good.

Online dating apps inevitably will have decent and indecent motives. This really depends on ur 'eyes' to filter out the bad ones.

I have tried Tinder but with little success. I guess the app is based more on first impressions or looks to decide whether there is a match or not. Im very avg looks so probably thats why i have been overlooked most of times.
Im still using Okcupid and maybe because of the options to write-up myself other than based on first impressions, chances are little better.

Ladies on online apps are more often than not swarm with msgs definitely..  ::) ::)

Think I don't have that kind of eyes to manage to filter. Some guys can look really decent but in actual fact they are not. thus, haven't got the guts to try dating apps yet. Hoping to meet the one in real life instead of cyber space.  ::)

Most of the messages are inappropriate messages. lol

Dating apps and dating agencies sets up expectations  .... something you can't shake from the back of your mind ... always this niggling feeling that you're not really yourself because you have to put your best foot forward or be on your best behaviour :(

true.. and most of the times looks became the most important criteria in dating apps and agencies

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« Reply #13 on: December 29, 2015, 05:19:21 pm »
Think I don't have that kind of eyes to manage to filter. Some guys can look really decent but in actual fact they are not. thus, haven't got the guts to try dating apps yet. Hoping to meet the one in real life instead of cyber space.  ::)

Most of the messages are inappropriate messages. lol

I guess discernment comes with practice or through lessons learnt from failure or success.

To wit - a numbers game if you are a keen statistician ... :P

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true.. and most of the times looks became the most important criteria in dating apps and agencies

Nothing a good make-over can't fix ...  ;) ;) ;)

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« Reply #14 on: December 29, 2015, 09:06:38 pm »
I guess discernment comes with practice or through lessons learnt from failure or success.

To wit - a numbers game if you are a keen statistician ... :P

Nothing a good make-over can't fix ...  ;) ;) ;)

Gambatte!

Not that I'm not confident over my looks but feel that it shouldn't be a major criteria  ;D ;D

anyway back to tinder, my friend mention that you will be able to find your friends (including those that are attached) and cousins on the app and its kinda awkward.  :o :o

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