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« on: March 30, 2016, 07:00:03 pm »
Hello all!  I am a psychology trained Dating coach. You can ask me anything related to love, relationships and dating.

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« Reply #1 on: March 30, 2016, 07:47:18 pm »
Hello all!  I am a psychology trained Dating coach. You can ask me anything related to love, relationships and dating.

Hello DatingCoach zehzeh :)

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« Reply #2 on: March 30, 2016, 11:10:40 pm »
Hello DatingCoach zehzeh :)

@wangxinling you are single ah?

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« Reply #3 on: March 31, 2016, 01:20:50 pm »
Hello DatingCoach zehzeh :)

Whether you are single or currently dating, I will be happy to answer any questions you may have!


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« Reply #4 on: March 31, 2016, 01:22:04 pm »
Happy to answer any questions you may have on dating :)

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« Reply #5 on: March 31, 2016, 01:40:01 pm »
should a gal carry prophylactics in her handbag/purse when she's out on a date? ???
"A man who has depths in his shame meets his destiny and his delicate decisions upon paths which few ever reach."

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« Reply #6 on: March 31, 2016, 06:07:44 pm »
@wangxinling you are single ah?

yes. you have any qns on dating? can ask our datingcoach zehzeh. :)

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« Reply #7 on: April 01, 2016, 01:56:14 pm »
@DatingCoach  what are your credentials? Or u r just gathering intel for other purposes?

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« Reply #8 on: April 01, 2016, 01:58:44 pm »
@DatingCoach  what are your credentials? Or u r just gathering intel for other purposes?

let's see how @DatingCoach reply to my question ...... I think it is a rather pertinent one don't you think?
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« Reply #9 on: April 01, 2016, 03:18:25 pm »
let's see how @DatingCoach reply to my question ...... I think it is a rather pertinent one don't you think?

You sure u r not too cheem?

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« Reply #10 on: April 01, 2016, 03:35:25 pm »
You sure u r not too cheem?

ermmmmm .... okay, maybe to make it clearer - prophylactics = condoms and oral dam
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« Reply #11 on: April 02, 2016, 12:35:33 am »
should a gal carry prophylactics in her handbag/purse when she's out on a date? ???

There are 2 definitions to this word, was waiting for your clarification.

If it is the "medical" definition for prevention, why not?
If it is a condom, then my question is: what's expectation does the girl have out of the date? Safety is always the most important thing to look out for. Thus my advice is always to choose a safe location with many people for first few dates.
« Last Edit: April 02, 2016, 12:40:19 am by DatingCoach »

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« Reply #12 on: April 02, 2016, 12:43:26 am »
@DatingCoach  what are your credentials? Or u r just gathering intel for other purposes?

I am a professional full time dating coach by profession. I have coached thousands of singles in the last 4 years. I was also invited by a friend to join this forum to offer free advice. Hope I can be of service to this community :)

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« Reply #13 on: April 02, 2016, 01:02:37 pm »
some of my colleagues and I work long hours (too long hours, if you ask me) and we are wary of dating events and such.
what can we do to improve our own social life and dating scene?

what would you advise to women like us?

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« Reply #14 on: April 02, 2016, 07:30:57 pm »
some of my colleagues and I work long hours (too long hours, if you ask me) and we are wary of dating events and such.
what can we do to improve our own social life and dating scene?

what would you advise to women like us?

Hello there, I do understand the struggles when you work too long hours/have too many same-gendered colleagues in workplace.

I agree that attending events can be tiring sometimes, and sometimes it is hard to find the right one through events.

One way to save time is to visit a good dating agency that run personalised 1-to-1 matching service. It is the most efficient way to find you a suitable match. (And of course I will be happy to serve you if u pm me)

Of course, for those who are even more serious about finding a partner, some coaching sessions with a trained coach will help you look into the root of the issue when it comes to improve your social life. Is it a time management issue (due to work scheduling), is it a mindset issue (fear of meeting new people), or is what is it that is in the way? Example: Many times people brush it away by saying "busy with work" - but there could still be pockets of free time for dating that you may not have realised. So engaging a trained external party to look into it may give you insights to things you never knew.

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