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Re: Am I interested in a guy, (is he a gay?)?
« Reply #15 on: October 26, 2016, 06:44:00 pm »
Good rice must cook slowly slowly.... gambatte! YOLO !  8)
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Re: Am I interested in a guy, (is he a gay?)?
« Reply #16 on: October 26, 2016, 11:06:21 pm »
Good rice must cook slowly slowly.... gambatte! YOLO !  8)

hehe just now took lift and train with him, we chatted & laughed along the way. OMG I clearly forgot about the embarrassment and confession I made to him. Engrossed with our small talks.

Hope things will turn out well...*smitten*

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Re: Am I interested in a guy, (is he a gay?)?
« Reply #17 on: October 27, 2016, 07:21:50 am »
hehe just now took lift and train with him, we chatted & laughed along the way. OMG I clearly forgot about the embarrassment and confession I made to him. Engrossed with our small talks.

Hope things will turn out well...*smitten*

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YOLO !  Gambatte !
 
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Re: Am I interested in a guy, (is he a gay?)?
« Reply #18 on: October 27, 2016, 11:17:17 pm »
"Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results."
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YOLO !  Gambatte !

yeah..hopefully will have different result...


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Re: Am I interested in a guy, (is he a gay?)?
« Reply #19 on: October 27, 2016, 11:24:25 pm »
I think its easier for a guy to initiate date once a girl expresses her interests. But, if a guy needs that kind of "encouragement", then i also wonder if the guy is "man" enough in the first place...  :-X

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Re: Am I interested in a guy, (is he a gay?)?
« Reply #20 on: October 28, 2016, 11:09:31 am »
I think its easier for a guy to initiate date once a girl expresses her interests. But, if a guy needs that kind of "encouragement", then i also wonder if the guy is "man" enough in the first place...  :-X

the guy is not interested lor, but too 'gentleman' to reject directly.  :-X

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Re: Am I interested in a guy, (is he a gay?)?
« Reply #21 on: October 28, 2016, 12:46:08 pm »
the guy is not interested lor, but too 'gentleman' to reject directly.  :-X

I think he went home thinking of free toufu ....  hur hur hur hur .... planning when to take up offer .... hur hur hur hur ....
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Re: Am I interested in a guy, (is he a gay?)?
« Reply #22 on: October 28, 2016, 07:12:33 pm »
He mentioned he think it would be better to remains as friends. But the interested and like i am referring was - to know more about someone and not directly into a relationship sort after all i only know him for 2 weeks. He must have thought I wanted relationship!! That's a clear rejection i guess  ):

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Re: Am I interested in a guy, (is he a gay?)?
« Reply #23 on: October 28, 2016, 08:31:12 pm »
I think he went home thinking of free toufu ....  hur hur hur hur .... planning when to take up offer .... hur hur hur hur ....

@beaverjuice

wah uncle make tofu one ah? So spot on. Actually I have some knowledge in making tofu too. I think the guy is sending testing signal out to TS by letting her know that he is a bad guy first. If anything went wrong, he could tell her "I told you so" and walk off without guilt. Since girls cannot resist the temptation to try to change a "bad guy" sub-consciously, he is making use of this advantage and played TS in his hand.

Above is my theory lah. But one thing for sure, when a guy said he is a bad guy, it can mean 2 things - 1) he don't want to feel guilty of something, 2) he is not interested in u

 8) 8) But there is a hope. TS, give me your number so I can discuss more in depth with u?

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Re: Am I interested in a guy, (is he a gay?)?
« Reply #24 on: October 28, 2016, 08:48:17 pm »
@beaverjuice

wah uncle make tofu one ah? So spot on. Actually I have some knowledge in making tofu too. I think the guy is sending testing signal out to TS by letting her know that he is a bad guy first. If anything went wrong, he could tell her "I told you so" and walk off without guilt. Since girls cannot resist the temptation to try to change a "bad guy" sub-consciously, he is making use of this advantage and played TS in his hand.

Above is my theory lah. But one thing for sure, when a guy said he is a bad guy, it can mean 2 things - 1) he don't want to feel guilty of something, 2) he is not interested in u

 8) 8) But there is a hope. TS, give me your number so I can discuss more in depth with u?


mmm i am not too sure too.. i think I'm rejected by people guess. )=

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Re: Am I interested in a guy, (is he a gay?)?
« Reply #25 on: October 28, 2016, 11:12:46 pm »
He mentioned he think it would be better to remains as friends. But the interested and like i am referring was - to know more about someone and not directly into a relationship sort after all i only know him for 2 weeks. He must have thought I wanted relationship!! That's a clear rejection i guess  ):

Of course he wants to be friends
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with benefits .... hur hur hur hur hur  ;)
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Re: Am I interested in a guy, (is he a gay?)?
« Reply #26 on: October 29, 2016, 02:44:40 am »
I think he is quite a gd catch.
any other guys might have snagged the deal and talk later.

but the way u describe him I feel that he likes the 矜持 type of girl...

sometimes eyecandy is different from love. he might find you cute but might not have those sort of feeling.
What Do you call, a person with sympathy but zero empathy?

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Re: Am I interested in a guy, (is he a gay?)?
« Reply #27 on: November 01, 2016, 06:59:01 pm »
I think he is quite a gd catch.
any other guys might have snagged the deal and talk later.

but the way u describe him I feel that he likes the 矜持 type of girl...

sometimes eyecandy is different from love. he might find you cute but might not have those sort of feeling.

Yeah now I'm shy but yet wanna act professional at work. Just not meant to be, won't force things to happen either... just a little disappointed I Guess...

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Re: Am I interested in a guy, (is he a gay?)?
« Reply #28 on: November 01, 2016, 07:47:08 pm »
Yeah now I'm shy but yet wanna act professional at work. Just not meant to be, won't force things to happen either... just a little disappointed I Guess...

There will always be a bigger fish out there waiting to get caught!  ;D

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Re: Am I interested in a guy, (is he a gay?)?
« Reply #29 on: November 02, 2016, 07:49:19 am »
Yeah now I'm shy but yet wanna act professional at work. Just not meant to be, won't force things to happen either... just a little disappointed I Guess...


gambatte !
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