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after I chat with a girl in facebook as friend, what next?
« on: March 14, 2016, 10:22:36 pm »
I don't want to make her feel uncomfortable
I follow the advice from you all, I now treat her as friend

I never flirt with her

I meet up and chit chat with her, eat with her, 3 times, purely as friends

Always is I initiate chat in facebook, she never initiate

She is a nice friend so far, last week I try to jio her go IT show, but she very studious, want to stay at school study, and do homework

Me: Today gt IT show at suntec till sunday U want to go there see IT product? It is a big exhibition

She: Outside ntu??? Im not going lol...ytd meeting until 3am...gonna go back sleep le after lunch

Me: Okkk, Yupp outside ntu, a bit far


So now how, should I wait? or move on?

what is the next move

I don't know anything one

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Re: after I chat with a girl in facebook as friend, what next?
« Reply #1 on: March 14, 2016, 10:38:31 pm »
Does she like dogs? ???
Do you like dogs? ???
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Re: after I chat with a girl in facebook as friend, what next?
« Reply #2 on: March 14, 2016, 11:00:07 pm »
Does she like dogs? ???
Do you like dogs? ???

I like cats. Haha

TS, how long have you know her? Three times going out as a friend and you want to move on isn't that too fast? What do you two talk about? Are your conversations interesting enough for her to yearn for more? Make yourself interesting to her, make her learn something from you. If its just plain topic then she will treat you just as a friend.

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Re: after I chat with a girl in facebook as friend, what next?
« Reply #3 on: March 14, 2016, 11:09:31 pm »
I think no chance liao...
Kena friendzone liao...
Oredi met her 3 times and she rather sleep than go to IT fair with him...


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Re: after I chat with a girl in facebook as friend, what next?
« Reply #4 on: March 14, 2016, 11:22:20 pm »
I think no chance liao...
Kena friendzone liao...
Oredi met her 3 times and she rather sleep than go to IT fair with him...

i oso think he in friendzone liao
best is give up.. if keep trying might backfire n not even become frenz
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Re: after I chat with a girl in facebook as friend, what next?
« Reply #5 on: March 14, 2016, 11:29:30 pm »
I think most gals don't like IT show de .....

Also since you're akways the one initiating, better back-off and don't make yourself a pest.

Baby lamb must cook slowly slowly de .....

I'd put her on the backburner for a bit and scout for other targets ...
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Re: after I chat with a girl in facebook as friend, what next?
« Reply #6 on: March 14, 2016, 11:54:20 pm »
Does she like dogs? ???
Do you like dogs? ???

NOPE

why?
 she like Kdrama though

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Re: after I chat with a girl in facebook as friend, what next?
« Reply #7 on: March 14, 2016, 11:56:53 pm »
i oso think he in friendzone liao
best is give up.. if keep trying might backfire n not even become frenz

Thanks I shall move on :)

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Re: after I chat with a girl in facebook as friend, what next?
« Reply #8 on: March 15, 2016, 12:26:47 am »
Plan some activities that both of you enjoy ma, like baking or pottery class, haha. You should know after knowing her for quite some time, don't jio girls go IT fair, and must pick the right time, not after her 3am meeting. IT fair too geeky and crowded for most girls. Good luck in finding the next lamb  ;)

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Re: after I chat with a girl in facebook as friend, what next?
« Reply #9 on: March 15, 2016, 12:35:32 am »
Jio her go watch movies, beach..
Subtle hints to let her know u are not just looking her as a friend. I think the signs are that she thought its purely friendship.
Then again, dont put all ur eggs in one basket since nothing is official. Get to know other girls too.

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Re: after I chat with a girl in facebook as friend, what next?
« Reply #10 on: March 15, 2016, 07:59:27 am »
NOPE

why?
 she like Kdrama though
Time to get a makeover to look like those Korean guys!

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Re: after I chat with a girl in facebook as friend, what next?
« Reply #11 on: March 15, 2016, 09:15:44 am »
I don't want to make her feel uncomfortable
I follow the advice from you all, I now treat her as friend

I never flirt with her

I meet up and chit chat with her, eat with her, 3 times, purely as friends

Always is I initiate chat in facebook, she never initiate

She is a nice friend so far, last week I try to jio her go IT show, but she very studious, want to stay at school study, and do homework

Me: Today gt IT show at suntec till sunday U want to go there see IT product? It is a big exhibition

She: Outside ntu??? Im not going lol...ytd meeting until 3am...gonna go back sleep le after lunch

Me: Okkk, Yupp outside ntu, a bit far


So now how, should I wait? or move on?

what is the next move

I don't know anything one

dont be passive, nowadays new generation singlish girls are slutty and demanding but that does not give you an excuse to filter them, talk to her more and most importantly, do activities that both of you enjoy and fun.....after that, you can do whatever you want with her, like say for example, pump and dump like what most singlish girls been though AFTER DATING A BAD BOY?? TRUST ME, BEING A BAD BOY WINS, NICE GUYS FINISH LAST....THEY DO AND DONT GIVE ME THOSE BULLSHIT SAY THERE FINISH BEST...WHAT IS FINISHING BEST WHEN THE GIRL YOU MARRY AROUND 30 HAS RIDDEN SO MANY COCKS???? IT LIKE YOU ARE GIVING UP AND STAINING YOUR MANHOOD WITH THOSE NASTY ASS EXES WHILE YOU MAKE LOVE TO HER...THAT IS JUST INDISCRETION CUCK-HOLDING........SAD.....

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Re: after I chat with a girl in facebook as friend, what next?
« Reply #12 on: March 15, 2016, 09:19:40 am »
Thanks I shall move on :)

sorry buddy, nowdays, it a good thing that women has options and choices unlike the 1950 which is a good thing for men to and why???? we will see the true nature of women when they have power.....make them slutty plus it kind of fun seeing them depreciate their value over the years and seeing them GETTING DESPERATE After HITTING THE BIG THREE ZERO.....HAHAHAHAHAAH, feel sad but also kind of fun seeing them figuring a way to get out of the big 3 and 0.

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Re: after I chat with a girl in facebook as friend, what next?
« Reply #13 on: March 15, 2016, 02:01:13 pm »
Plan some activities that both of you enjoy ma, like baking or pottery class, haha. You should know after knowing her for quite some time, don't jio girls go IT fair, and must pick the right time, not after her 3am meeting. IT fair too geeky and crowded for most girls. Good luck in finding the next lamb  ;)

LOL .... jiayou to TS !  :P
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Re: after I chat with a girl in facebook as friend, what next?
« Reply #14 on: March 15, 2016, 02:49:31 pm »
I don't want to make her feel uncomfortable
I follow the advice from you all, I now treat her as friend

I never flirt with her

I meet up and chit chat with her, eat with her, 3 times, purely as friends

Always is I initiate chat in facebook, she never initiate

She is a nice friend so far, last week I try to jio her go IT show, but she very studious, want to stay at school study, and do homework

Me: Today gt IT show at suntec till sunday U want to go there see IT product? It is a big exhibition

She: Outside ntu??? Im not going lol...ytd meeting until 3am...gonna go back sleep le after lunch

Me: Okkk, Yupp outside ntu, a bit far


So now how, should I wait? or move on?

what is the next move

I don't know anything one

TS so pro ar. Manage to chat up random girl on facebook lol.

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