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« on: October 14, 2015, 09:14:42 pm »
Hi, I'm currently 24, earning a pathetic 4k per month, no house, no car.

Met this girl one year ago, things went on quite good, went out a lot of times. Well, she doesn't allow me to hold her hands in public, but when we're watching movie in the cinema, she will hold my hands and kiss me. When she was trying on a new pair of shoes/heels, I'm will help her to tie it and wear it. So one fine day, I asked her to be my gf, she rejected saying that she's not ready. Fine. I wait. Till 2 months ago, we went out again as usual, hold hands in the cinema kiss.. Then I ask her again. This time she told me, she's not ready yet. So I angry and told her off. Saying that please don't contact me anymore.

One month later, I called her and told her I missed her. After that day, she blocked me on every social media. The last message to me was "I'm engaged"

Can I ask why girls can change so easily? Within a month got engaged .. Is that possible?

Oh forget to mention, she is very materialistic. Always want this want that. But I love her..
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Re: Advise needed
« Reply #1 on: October 14, 2015, 09:17:59 pm »
Hi, I'm currently 24, earning 4k per month, no house, no car.

Met this girl one year ago, things went on quite good, went out a lot of times. Well, she doesn't allow me to hold her hands in public, but when we're watching movie in the cinema, she will hold my hands and kiss me. When she was trying on a new pair of shoes/heels, I'm will help her to tie it and wear it. So one fine day, I asked her to be my gf, she rejected saying that she's not ready. Fine. I wait. Till 2 months ago, we went out again as usual, hold hands in the cinema kiss.. Then I ask her again. This time she told me, she's not ready yet. So I angry and told her off. Saying that please don't contact me anymore.

One month later, I called her and told her I missed her. After that day, she blocked me on every social media. The last message to me was "I'm engaged"

Can I ask why girls can change so easily? Within a month got engaged .. Is that possible?

Oh forget to mention, she is very materialistic. Always want this want that. But I love her..

sounds like you got lucky.

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Re: Advise needed
« Reply #2 on: October 14, 2015, 09:19:16 pm »
sounds like you got lucky.

Sorry, I don't understand

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Re: Advise needed
« Reply #3 on: October 14, 2015, 09:47:51 pm »
Sounds like spare tyre


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Re: Advise needed
« Reply #4 on: October 14, 2015, 09:57:14 pm »
Sounds like spare tyre

We even had sex with each other .. And still I'm a spare tyre ?

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Re: Advise needed
« Reply #5 on: October 14, 2015, 11:28:08 pm »
Just move on since she is not interested. 24 yo and earning 4k is a good start. Continue to work hard and it is just a matter of time before you meet someone better.

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« Reply #6 on: October 15, 2015, 09:47:48 am »
she find someone better

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« Reply #7 on: October 15, 2015, 09:54:27 am »
she find someone better

jin sad, so fast to get another replacement..

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« Reply #8 on: October 15, 2015, 10:50:33 am »
$4k salary so low...
You expect her to eat kopitiam foodcourt every day ah?

If you love a woman, you want the best for her everyday of the rest of her life.

In my opinion, $6k salary is minimum standard for a SG guy.

Why does money always matters? Why can't it be a simple happy relationship without money issue...

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« Reply #9 on: October 15, 2015, 11:35:43 am »
Why does money always matters? Why can't it be a simple happy relationship without money issue...

I have been wondering about the same question too. Love money so much ownself go work hard and earn lo.
~I come here in peace~ *holds up white flag*

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« Reply #10 on: October 15, 2015, 01:28:35 pm »
I have been wondering about the same question too. Love money so much ownself go work hard and earn lo.

Ownself earn and spend, its no fun. All girls like to be pampered...they want the guys to splurge on them, then they feel they are in cloud 9. Princessy feel mah...

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« Reply #11 on: October 15, 2015, 04:12:27 pm »
wa so good, my boyf is 25 and only 3.9k... but we are happy and i still feel pampered by him.

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« Reply #12 on: October 15, 2015, 05:13:14 pm »
wa so good, my boyf is 25 and only 3.9k... but we are happy and i still feel pampered by him.

i'm so sad that she wants to leave me

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« Reply #13 on: October 15, 2015, 05:27:24 pm »
Hi, I'm currently 24, earning a pathetic 4k per month, no house, no car.

Met this girl one year ago, things went on quite good, went out a lot of times. Well, she doesn't allow me to hold her hands in public, but when we're watching movie in the cinema, she will hold my hands and kiss me. When she was trying on a new pair of shoes/heels, I'm will help her to tie it and wear it. So one fine day, I asked her to be my gf, she rejected saying that she's not ready. Fine. I wait. Till 2 months ago, we went out again as usual, hold hands in the cinema kiss.. Then I ask her again. This time she told me, she's not ready yet. So I angry and told her off. Saying that please don't contact me anymore.

One month later, I called her and told her I missed her. After that day, she blocked me on every social media. The last message to me was "I'm engaged"

Can I ask why girls can change so easily? Within a month got engaged .. Is that possible?

Oh forget to mention, she is very materialistic. Always want this want that. But I love her..

the warning signs are there.
she does not want to be seen with you in public as her SO. (sorry to say), which is why only in the dark cinema she will kiss you. and she is materialistic? did you buy anything for her before?

it seems that she was engaged even before you met her.

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« Reply #14 on: October 15, 2015, 07:30:37 pm »
the warning signs are there.
she does not want to be seen with you in public as her SO. (sorry to say), which is why only in the dark cinema she will kiss you. and she is materialistic? did you buy anything for her before?

it seems that she was engaged even before you met her.

Yes I bought things for her. But why did she want to kiss me when she's engaged? I don't understand..