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Advise needed part 2
« on: November 16, 2015, 10:01:09 pm »
My first part is here, this link

http://petalbytes.com/all-about-love/advise-needed/

Sis, I really need some advise.

Three weeks ago, she came to my house. After she rings the bell, I opened the door, and saw her, drunk.

Heartache seeing her like that, I quickly opened the door and let her sleep on my bed.

I then went to make Sen Cha for her. She drank abit and vomit on me and my floor. Then keep apologising to me. I told her no worries and clean up.

After that I asked her,
"What happened? I though u are allergic to alcohol? Why did u drink?"
"I'm sorry. Don't mention it please." And she placed her lips on mine. All those memories between us were flashing in my mind. Her smell, her smile, everything. And also her last word, "I'm engaged"
I quickly pushed her away and said "no, you're attached, please have a good sleep, goodnight." Then I went to sleep at another room.

Next day, she woke up, apologised to me and I said it's ok.

We did not chat for a week, then last weekend, she texted me, asked me to accompany her, so I obliged. She came to my house, drink together, everything was perfect! Like last time. So, one thing lead to another, we had sex that night. And also for a few days.

Suddenly, she stopped chatting with me. It's been 3 days.

Sis.. Please advise what is this woman up to? Sex? Attention? Or what? I'm going crazy because of her playing with my mind like this.

TLDR: ex?(maybe not, I'm only her toy)Came back to find me drunk, have sex last week, suddenly disappeared from my life again.
« Last Edit: November 16, 2015, 10:02:52 pm by KopiOwifMilk »

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Re: Advise needed part 2
« Reply #1 on: November 16, 2015, 10:31:28 pm »
Men mistake sex for love .... again ....  :-\

No wonder so many guys kenna swindled by thai pu-yings ...

Frankly i don't see an issue being "comfort-man" but first rule is - a gentleman should never kiss-and-tell.   

All the best bro'
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Re: Advise needed part 2
« Reply #2 on: November 17, 2015, 12:44:09 am »
My first part is here, this link

http://petalbytes.com/all-about-love/advise-needed/

Sis, I really need some advise.

Three weeks ago, she came to my house. After she rings the bell, I opened the door, and saw her, drunk.

Heartache seeing her like that, I quickly opened the door and let her sleep on my bed.

I then went to make Sen Cha for her. She drank abit and vomit on me and my floor. Then keep apologising to me. I told her no worries and clean up.

After that I asked her,
"What happened? I though u are allergic to alcohol? Why did u drink?"
"I'm sorry. Don't mention it please." And she placed her lips on mine. All those memories between us were flashing in my mind. Her smell, her smile, everything. And also her last word, "I'm engaged"
I quickly pushed her away and said "no, you're attached, please have a good sleep, goodnight." Then I went to sleep at another room.

Next day, she woke up, apologised to me and I said it's ok.

We did not chat for a week, then last weekend, she texted me, asked me to accompany her, so I obliged. She came to my house, drink together, everything was perfect! Like last time. So, one thing lead to another, we had sex that night. And also for a few days.

Suddenly, she stopped chatting with me. It's been 3 days.

Sis.. Please advise what is this woman up to? Sex? Attention? Or what? I'm going crazy because of her playing with my mind like this.

TLDR: ex?(maybe not, I'm only her toy)Came back to find me drunk, have sex last week, suddenly disappeared from my life again.

hmm. I tot such thgs only happen to a lady. u mean guys also get conned.

how old are the both?
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Re: Advise needed part 2
« Reply #3 on: November 17, 2015, 12:57:11 am »
oh.. read your first thread liao. I think she already got bf before meeting you and now just engaged le. maybe occasionally find you now and then for attention and comfort.

so better to move on and stop thinking why. coz both are on different pages.
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Re: Advise needed part 2
« Reply #4 on: November 17, 2015, 04:59:37 am »
Men mistake sex for love .... again ....  :-\

No wonder so many guys kenna swindled by thai pu-yings ...

Frankly i don't see an issue being "comfort-man" but first rule is - a gentleman should never kiss-and-tell.   

All the best bro'
bro, i never tell anyone. i never tell anyone about our relationship. Internet is anonymous, i think this is the only way i can express myself. my sadness. i'm sorry if i did anything wrong

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Re: Advise needed part 2
« Reply #5 on: November 17, 2015, 08:28:40 am »
relationship is complicated sia...

If the girl's bf treat her well, why would she find TS for comfort? Think it's either the bf is not up to her satisfaction or this girl is just plain sl*t looking for casual sex. Very scary to know what our partner did behind our back...

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Re: Advise needed part 2
« Reply #6 on: November 17, 2015, 09:47:25 am »
bro, i never tell anyone. i never tell anyone about our relationship. Internet is anonymous, i think this is the only way i can express myself. my sadness. i'm sorry if i did anything wrong
@KopiOwifMilk - hey no worry.  no sad. much stim. so enjoy.

even if she's treating you as an afternoon delight, you needn't let yourself get emotionally vested unless you wanted to.

ah-lian with strong vibes said to me before - 拿得起放得下 ....

all the best bro'
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Re: Advise needed part 2
« Reply #7 on: November 17, 2015, 11:38:53 am »
you have sex & she only find you for sex, what advise you need? i guess you can consider yourself good in bed. if not, she wun keep coming back for it

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Re: Advise needed part 2
« Reply #8 on: November 17, 2015, 11:47:14 am »
you have sex & she only find you for sex, what advise you need? i guess you can consider yourself good in bed. if not, she wun keep coming back for it

why you sabo him !!!!!  :o :o :o .... now all manner of gals will PM him for "outing" liao .... >:(

he's already in an emotionally vulnerable state .... don't make it worse .... :(

PS:  if anyone has hong kong duck to intro, maybe can help solve problem for TS .... PM him okies ....
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Re: Advise needed part 2
« Reply #9 on: November 17, 2015, 12:33:41 pm »
why you sabo him !!!!!  :o :o :o .... now all manner of gals will PM him for "outing" liao .... >:(

he's already in an emotionally vulnerable state .... don't make it worse .... :(

PS:  if anyone has hong kong duck to intro, maybe can help solve problem for TS .... PM him okies ....

No wonder no one pm me for outing until now....I need to market myself towards this direction liao!

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Re: Advise needed part 2
« Reply #10 on: November 17, 2015, 03:21:46 pm »
No wonder no one pm me for outing until now....I need to market myself towards this direction liao!

 @FatNeko  :o :o :o - you need to find your USP larrrr, how can follow other people pattern de ....

gals dig humour and sometimes adopting a deprecating sense of humour helps ....

be natural and go with the flow man .....

PS:  anyway,  who knows,  maybe you have many outings le but act ke-lian here on petalbytes to bait more xmm .....  :P
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Re: Advise needed part 2
« Reply #11 on: November 17, 2015, 04:08:32 pm »
why you sabo him !!!!!  :o :o :o .... now all manner of gals will PM him for "outing" liao .... >:(

he's already in an emotionally vulnerable state .... don't make it worse .... :(

PS:  if anyone has hong kong duck to intro, maybe can help solve problem for TS .... PM him okies ....

anyone who has ample sex definitely wun be vulnerable in any state  :-X

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Re: Advise needed part 2
« Reply #12 on: November 17, 2015, 04:20:32 pm »
@FatNeko  :o :o :o - you need to find your USP larrrr, how can follow other people pattern de ....

gals dig humour and sometimes adopting a deprecating sense of humour helps ....

be natural and go with the flow man .....

PS:  anyway,  who knows,  maybe you have many outings le but act ke-lian here on petalbytes to bait more xmm .....  :P

Think too much liao...I am a homeless and ownerless cat, here no fish for me :( 

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« Reply #13 on: November 17, 2015, 04:24:24 pm »
anyone who has ample sex definitely wun be vulnerable in any state  :-X

I think he feels vulnerable lorrrr ..... like used tampon like that ....   :'(
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« Reply #14 on: November 17, 2015, 04:25:22 pm »
Think too much liao...I am a homeless and ownerless cat, here no fish for me :(

@FatNeko - aiyohhhh ..... really arh?  :-[ ..... then PM them lorrrrr ..... time to get proactive man .....
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