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12 years age gap? Does love really have no boundaries?
« on: April 07, 2018, 09:17:16 pm »
I have a friend who is a few years younger than me, 16, and she tells me that she is interested in a guy who is 12 years older than her, 28. She says that his personality really attracts her. I've met him a couple of times and I don't see why anyone would not be interested in him. He has a stable job and doing well. He seems quite genuine and he is really very nice but i'm afraid 12 years is too big of an age gap. If my friend is older than 21, it would not be as 'strange' but she's only 16. My friend is much more mature than majority of 16 year olds though. What are your thoughts?

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Re: 12 years age gap? Does love really have no boundaries?
« Reply #1 on: April 07, 2018, 09:49:54 pm »
Yes. Sexual grooming comes to mind.

And never mistake "crush" for "love".

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Re: 12 years age gap? Does love really have no boundaries?
« Reply #2 on: April 09, 2018, 12:18:16 am »
Hmmm,
If love = money
Then it has no boundaries bah?

As long as it's usable currency in an.existing territory.

Sugar babies v common nowadays.
There's a mind switch people can enable to resolve their cognitive dissonance of having transactional relationships by sweet lacing with a noble word like love
« Last Edit: April 09, 2018, 12:21:15 am by happyshar »
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Re: 12 years age gap? Does love really have no boundaries?
« Reply #3 on: April 09, 2018, 07:57:04 am »
Hmmm,
If love = money
Then it has no boundaries bah?

As long as it's usable currency in an.existing territory.

Sugar babies v common nowadays.
There's a mind switch people can enable to resolve their cognitive dissonance of having transactional relationships by sweet lacing with a noble word like love

Huh? How did you know she gets paid in kind?

You mean as in kogal or enjo-kosai type of relationship?

Anyways 16 yrs old is just barely legal .... could be jail-bait in some countries
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Re: 12 years age gap? Does love really have no boundaries?
« Reply #4 on: April 09, 2018, 04:39:53 pm »
Huh? How did you know she gets paid in kind?

You mean as in kogal or enjo-kosai type of relationship?

Anyways 16 yrs old is just barely legal .... could be jail-bait in some countries

Nowadays young students got app to find sugar daddies to pay them ...
Recently the news also many cases of minor having consensual but reported after that then the man get into jail
The kids nowadays not as guileless as our times. But by law is still illegal so yah  :-X
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« Reply #5 on: April 09, 2018, 06:18:38 pm »
Nowadays young students got app to find sugar daddies to pay them ...
Recently the news also many cases of minor having consensual but reported after that then the man get into jail
The kids nowadays not as guileless as our times. But by law is still illegal so yah  :-X

Luckily unker likes MILFs ...  :-*
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Re: 12 years age gap? Does love really have no boundaries?
« Reply #6 on: April 12, 2018, 08:06:55 pm »
age is just some numbers, that is what I always heard often 8)

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Re: 12 years age gap? Does love really have no boundaries?
« Reply #7 on: April 18, 2018, 05:30:08 pm »
You know what most people say? Love is blind. Just let it be and see how they go. You won't know what one person's mind is thinking. Just hopefully isn't what you all are saying. 16 is not a legal age.

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Re: 12 years age gap? Does love really have no boundaries?
« Reply #8 on: June 15, 2018, 04:34:16 pm »
I think there are no limits unless you "fell" it's your person...I've seen people with 20 and 30 years difference between them and there was nothing about money... The most important is to be in comfort

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Re: 12 years age gap? Does love really have no boundaries?
« Reply #9 on: July 21, 2018, 01:40:25 am »
Yes. Sexual grooming comes to mind.

And never mistake "crush" for "love".

Take care my fren ...
Hello uncle.. 16 consider matured liao, they have google to teach them everything since 2 you know? Youtube is their kindergarten teacher and google is your lifelong teacher. Cannot use ur old spec to look at them..
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« Reply #10 on: July 21, 2018, 01:42:40 am »
Wad you call dat if mature woman 30 fall in love with young guy 16.. Hmm..  :-[

If there is no money involve I think the likely reason is younger ppl have more vitality
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« Reply #11 on: July 21, 2018, 09:34:27 am »
Hello uncle.. 16 consider matured liao, they have google to teach them everything since 2 you know? Youtube is their kindergarten teacher and google is your lifelong teacher. Cannot use ur old spec to look at them..

still cannot do it larrrr ..... last night got one 19 year old 闪友 .... she's like 1/3 my age .... says she's still studying but cannot talk economics or fourier transform .... how to talk mature with unker :(


I still feel lar hor .... LKB is the bestest !

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« Reply #12 on: July 21, 2018, 09:35:43 am »
Wad you call dat if mature woman 30 fall in love with young guy 16.. Hmm..  :-[

If there is no money involve I think the likely reason is younger ppl have more vitality

16 year old guy is like energizer bunny manz ..... so envy .... :-\
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« Reply #13 on: July 21, 2018, 04:50:13 pm »
16 year old guy is like energizer bunny manz ..... so envy .... :-\

So pure n guileless somemore
 :-X
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Re: 12 years age gap? Does love really have no boundaries?
« Reply #14 on: July 21, 2018, 10:46:01 pm »
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