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Re: [AMA] Dating 101s. For Guys or girls who is clueless on how to date
« Reply #30 on: December 31, 2018, 01:08:46 pm »
"if you cannot love yourself, how do others love you?"

from this, there are a few ways of interpretation

know your strengths, and be confident in them. don't think they are unworthy in other's eyes. for example, if the topic of hobbies pop up, i say I'm good in chess. and when the girl likes chess too, we get a conversation going. even if she doesn't, this particular skill could show whether I'm intelligent, and yea, some might think I'm a nerd. so be it. if she likes nerds, great, if she doesn't, I wouldn't want to pretend otherwise anyway.
So to summarise this para, ur a nerd? Hurhur :P
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Re: [AMA] Dating 101s. For Guys or girls who is clueless on how to date
« Reply #31 on: January 03, 2019, 09:56:34 am »
Last time i mentioned to a girl that i'm good at playing chinese chest, i got slapped ...  :-[

i play chinese chess, international, and know some weiqi


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Re: [AMA] Dating 101s. For Guys or girls who is clueless on how to date
« Reply #33 on: January 03, 2019, 10:08:38 am »
i play chinese chess, international, and know some weiqi

Truly a man of many talents!  8)

Afraid my repertoire is a little more limited ...  :-[
"A man who has depths in his shame meets his destiny and his delicate decisions upon paths which few ever reach."


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Re: [AMA] Dating 101s. For Guys or girls who is clueless on how to date
« Reply #34 on: January 04, 2019, 12:12:34 am »
Truly a man of many talents!  8)

Afraid my repertoire is a little more limited ...  :-[

i learnt shogi too but admittedly, its my worse chess lol

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Re: [AMA] Dating 101s. For Guys or girls who is clueless on how to date
« Reply #35 on: January 07, 2019, 03:06:07 pm »
i learnt shogi too but admittedly, its my worse chess lol

I believe he talking abt woman u talking abt chess ..
Like dat oso can communicate
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Re: [AMA] Dating 101s. For Guys or girls who is clueless on how to date
« Reply #37 on: March 29, 2019, 01:05:43 pm »
sometime not that we don't like nerds.
nerds are perfectly fine as friends... but some nerds if they like u or go on a sorta "date" (means 2 person alone) they are a bit awkward.

i have a long 3 minute silence during a dinner date till i couldn't take it and ask him about work. (i hate talking abt work)

maybe introvert guys should prepare some topics in advance for date nights?

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Re: [AMA] Dating 101s. For Guys or girls who is clueless on how to date
« Reply #38 on: March 29, 2019, 06:18:29 pm »
sometime not that we don't like nerds.
nerds are perfectly fine as friends... but some nerds if they like u or go on a sorta "date" (means 2 person alone) they are a bit awkward.

i have a long 3 minute silence during a dinner date till i couldn't take it and ask him about work. (i hate talking abt work)

maybe introvert guys should prepare some topics in advance for date nights?

Easy way to break 3 minute silence is to ask questions

For example I will ask her what she thinks about trending topics on Instagram  or Twitter....
"A man who has depths in his shame meets his destiny and his delicate decisions upon paths which few ever reach."

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