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'He had 9 flings while I was pregnant'
« on: February 10, 2016, 04:02:00 pm »
http://women.asiaone.com/women/relationships/he-had-9-flings-while-i-was-pregnant

.... woah ... like Taiwanese drama like that .....


"I met Andy* through a social networking app. After realising we had many mutual friends, we started chatting. We dated for two months before we got together officially.

"Although he wasn't a conventionally good-looking man, I was attracted to his caring and loving nature. He would always accompany me when I had to run errands, frequently had meals with my family, and introduced me to all his friends.

"Everyone had a good impression of him; I felt secure with him. "One year into our relationship, I discovered that I was pregnant. I wanted to get married immediately, but he persuaded me to wait till I had given birth because it felt too rushed. I agreed, because I thought there was no reason for him to lie to me. Besides, we were really happy together.

"I gave birth to our baby girl last year. Two months after that, he still hadn't mentioned a word about marriage.

AN AFFAIR WITH THE EX

"At that point, Andy started to stay away from the home we shared, sometimes even on weekends. When I questioned him about it, he explained that he was too tired to drive home after leaving work for the night.

"It sounded plausible, but - call it a woman's intuition - I started to become suspicious



人不可貌相,海水不可斗量 ..... caring and loving nature doesn't count for sh!t larrrrrr .... WLE .....

an ordinary friend can also show his caring and loving nature mah ...... buy you breakfast, lunch, tea and dinner ..... that makes him marriageable???? ...... what kind of cockamamie idea is that  :-\
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Re: 'He had 9 flings while I was pregnant'
« Reply #1 on: February 10, 2016, 04:30:05 pm »
when guy dun wan to marry you when he knock u up. what make you think aft u give birth he will marry you.

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Re: 'He had 9 flings while I was pregnant'
« Reply #2 on: February 10, 2016, 04:39:30 pm »
when guy dun wan to marry you when he knock u up. what make you think aft u give birth he will marry you.

maybe she was hoping he would feel compelled out of "responsibility", and judging from his caring nature .....  :-X
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Re: 'He had 9 flings while I was pregnant'
« Reply #3 on: February 10, 2016, 05:26:16 pm »
maybe she was hoping he would feel compelled out of "responsibility", and judging from his caring nature .....  :-X

if he is truly caring he will not say marry after giving birth lor.


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Re: 'He had 9 flings while I was pregnant'
« Reply #4 on: February 10, 2016, 05:48:05 pm »
if he is truly caring he will not say marry after giving birth lor.

This is a delay tactic!
贱男人.

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Re: 'He had 9 flings while I was pregnant'
« Reply #5 on: February 10, 2016, 05:52:11 pm »
This is a delay tactic!
贱男人.

at that time should have leave the guy. if really care will not be so careless knocked up gf

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Re: 'He had 9 flings while I was pregnant'
« Reply #6 on: February 10, 2016, 06:02:12 pm »
at that time should have leave the guy. if really care will not be so careless knocked up gf

too exciting liao .... cannot think straight mah .....  :P :-X

I also think the woman is not so simple de .....  >:(
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Re: 'He had 9 flings while I was pregnant'
« Reply #7 on: February 10, 2016, 06:05:03 pm »
too exciting liao .... cannot think straight mah .....  :P :-X

I also think the woman is not so simple de .....  >:(

getting preggy to keep a guy it the most stupid thing a woman can do

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Re: 'He had 9 flings while I was pregnant'
« Reply #8 on: February 10, 2016, 06:51:56 pm »
getting preggy to keep a guy it the most stupid thing a woman can do

Nowsadays women got many pattern liao .... trickieeeeeee ...... trickieeeeeee .....    :(
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Re: 'He had 9 flings while I was pregnant'
« Reply #9 on: February 10, 2016, 07:00:33 pm »
Nowsadays women got many pattern liao .... trickieeeeeee ...... trickieeeeeee .....    :(

Because of those 男人 loh...

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Re: 'He had 9 flings while I was pregnant'
« Reply #10 on: February 10, 2016, 07:16:02 pm »
Because of those 男人 loh...

I don't think is always the men's fault,  women are equally devious these days ....trickieeeee ...... trickieeeeeee ......  >:(
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Re: 'He had 9 flings while I was pregnant'
« Reply #11 on: February 10, 2016, 08:42:05 pm »
wah caring man also like dat.
den if meet non caring man cannot imagine liao.
没有心,就不会痛 😉

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Re: 'He had 9 flings while I was pregnant'
« Reply #12 on: February 10, 2016, 09:31:04 pm »
wah caring man also like dat.
den if meet non caring man cannot imagine liao.

If you read further, you'd conclude that her standard of "caring" is quite low .... that's why i'm pretty sceptical when youngsters say their boyfren is caring ..... it usual means buying them breakfast, lunch, tea and dinner and to them it means love for eva n eva n eva....   :-X

Like this ah-lian .....

http://petalbytes.com/chit-chat-corner/love-story-i-thought-he-was-an-'ah-beng'-the-first-day-i-met-him-while-running/
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Re: 'He had 9 flings while I was pregnant'
« Reply #13 on: February 10, 2016, 10:08:20 pm »
If you read further, you'd conclude that her standard of "caring" is quite low .... that's why i'm pretty sceptical when youngsters say their boyfren is caring ..... it usual means buying them breakfast, lunch, tea and dinner and to them it means love for eva n eva n eva....   :-X

Like this ah-lian .....

http://petalbytes.com/chit-chat-corner/love-story-i-thought-he-was-an-'ah-beng'-the-first-day-i-met-him-while-running/

haha perception problem lo but some guy dun even bother. maybe compared to those guys the guy hu bought bfast lunch and tea is really caring bah..

and some r caring for a reason..
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Re: 'He had 9 flings while I was pregnant'
« Reply #14 on: February 10, 2016, 10:34:23 pm »
haha perception problem lo but some guy dun even bother. maybe compared to those guys the guy hu bought bfast lunch and tea is really caring bah..

and some r caring for a reason..

young gurls very easy to trick de .... hur ... hur ... hurrrr ....  :P
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